Yeah so I realized all those years ago when I asked him to be poly and he asked me to not... I kinda got my way. So it's his turn now.
Prepare to uncouple -- uncouple.
Oz ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
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Laga - Aug 04, 2011 8:04:11 am PDT #26810 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Pix - Aug 04, 2011 8:04:50 am PDT #26811 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
Is this D or someone else?
Laga - Aug 04, 2011 8:05:47 am PDT #26812 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
It's D, yes. I've also realized that for a year I have been avoiding dating sites because I don't think I'll find anyone I like as much as him.
Laura - Aug 04, 2011 8:14:47 am PDT #26813 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
so yeah... I am in a monogamous relationship
I endorse this plan! Hope it works out wonderfully.
sj - Aug 04, 2011 8:15:54 am PDT #26814 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
so yeah... I am in a monogamous relationship
Yay, Laga! Wishing you both all the best.
Laga - Aug 04, 2011 8:16:48 am PDT #26815 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I feel a little weightless.
I've been thinking about it for probably a month, kept waiting for the opportune moment to arise. Then last night I made a salad that he declared "fucking amazing" and I just had to avow my undying love for him.
OK getting off my butt now, time for oatmeal.
WindSparrow - Aug 04, 2011 8:45:25 am PDT #26816 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
{{{{{{Laga&D}}}}} I wish all the best happiness for the two of you.
Scrappy - Aug 04, 2011 8:52:41 am PDT #26817 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
I have to admit, when you posted about him there was always such palpable affection and delight there that I sometimes wondered to myself "Why don't Laga and D date?"
Laga - Aug 04, 2011 9:01:45 am PDT #26818 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Yes, we did. And had such great chemistry. But differing views on what makes an ideal relationship. I didn't want to become a statistic in the poly community, one more person who "dropped out", but now I think of poly as more of a relationship choice than something that needs poster girls.
Laga - Aug 04, 2011 9:11:05 am PDT #26819 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
...and now I've told my mother. I'm going to go hang out in a fantasy world and slay monsters for an hour.