Oh, wow. This place looks great. Oh, I feel like a witch in a magic shop.

Willow ,'Help'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Jul 13, 2011 6:41:42 am PDT #25326 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Much ~ma for your sister and your whole family, erin. And you! I wonder how your dad is expecting this to work out.

meara, having kept track of these things obsessively, I know there are days when I'm going to be eating everything in sight and craving carbs, and other days when I barely think of food at all, and it's due to hormone fluctuations. It's marked on my calendar: Eat Everything Day is followed by Sleep and Eat All Day Like a Bear Day which is followed by Intractable Headache and Cranky as Shit for two days, then Intractable Backache for two days, and then my period arrives. YHormonalHellMV

I'd bet every dollar in my wallet that song "I Enjoy Being a Girl" was written by a guy.


Barb - Jul 13, 2011 6:43:59 am PDT #25327 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

I'd bet every dollar in my wallet that song "I Enjoy Being a Girl" was written by a guy.

Two of 'em, actually. Rodgers & Hammerstein.


§ ita § - Jul 13, 2011 6:54:13 am PDT #25328 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I enjoy being a girl. I just don't write songs.


Steph L. - Jul 13, 2011 8:58:11 am PDT #25329 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oooh, Mama needs a silver corset. (Yes, I just referred to myself as "Mama." No, I am not pregnant; it was the colloquial "Mama," as in "Look at that hot mama in the silver corset and Batman t-shirt.")

Seriously, that's awesome.


Trudy Booth - Jul 13, 2011 8:59:56 am PDT #25330 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

any bitches about who could help me turn around a letter quickly? a firm where i was very happy in a long term temp position has two jobs available:

Dear P,

I hope this message finds you well. I am currently job hunting. As we are well past the six month mark dictated by contracts with the temp agency who originally placed me with you, I thought it best to contact you directly. I am also getting in touch with Maria H as she trained me and Peter I thought well of me when I covered for her.

I see on D's website that there is a position open for a Communication's Assistant. I'm not certain that my BFA in acting qualifies as "degree in communications, public relations, journalism, or equivalent" (though it may). I feel, however, that law firm experience, interactions at a variety of levels in a firm, attention to detail, prioritization, multi-tasking, and written/oral communications are very much in line with the needs of the position. There is also, I see, an Administrative Assistant position available in HR. I feel my experience applies to that job description as well. I have had heavy phone-contact in the past and deal well with just about anyone who walks through the door. Both positions are fields of interest to me and I would eagerly tackle learning whatever new skills necessary for the job.

Of course, if there are any as-yet unposted legal secretary positions available I would be interested in those as well. My schedule is such that any shift would work for me.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Best regards,

Trudy


Trudy Booth - Jul 13, 2011 9:00:43 am PDT #25331 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Peter I is a big deal partner. Hence the name-drop.


Trudy Booth - Jul 13, 2011 9:55:03 am PDT #25332 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Sent!

So, you know, don't tell me anything bad. It's too late. I'll just suffer.


sj - Jul 13, 2011 10:19:55 am PDT #25333 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

erin, tons of ~ma to your sister. I hope your dad's plan doesn't blow up in his face too badly.

I was pulling into the driveway a minute ago and saw my upstairs neighbor being dropped off by a police car. She didn't look upset and she did have a grocery bag with her. So maybe he was just being nice and driving her home from the market (she doesn't own a car), but I automatically assume the worst with upstairs neighbors.


brenda m - Jul 13, 2011 10:36:57 am PDT #25334 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Good luck Trudy!


erin_obscure - Jul 13, 2011 11:00:15 am PDT #25335 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Sounds like he's using the rationale of excising her for "her own good/consequences/blah blah blah" as an excuse so that he no longer has to deal with the shit.

this is very much how i'm seeing it, unfortunately. I love my Dad dearly, but i have also heard him complaining for years about her mom "using" him for "free child care." He has this emotional state of not having wanted another child, so not feeling any internal compunction to take care of her beyond financially...and even that has been a frequent issue of contention between the parents. He doesn't like having a 15 year old in his house, and she doesn't like spending time at his house because she has no friends nearby and it's boooooring for her. Especially now that her internet priviledges are severely limited.

I think i might have talked him into reconsidering. Seems like he's just giving up on her...a process that started years ago when he started openly questioning her biological parentage. (A valid concern, she was born a year to the day after he had his first attack--brought on by his wife's infidelity--followed by open heart surgery. Many people question whether he actually fathered a child a couple months out of the ICU...) But since her birth he's been her father and never asked for genetic testing, so IMHO he needs to step up and continue trying to HELP her, no matter how hard and painful it is. Easy for me to say, happily childless and on the other side of the country.

sj- cops frequently will do a "courtesy transport" after breaking up a disturbance, in order to separate the parties. My assumption would be that she got in a row with someone, they responded to break it up, and then gave her a ride home to get her away from the scene. Cops generally don't just give pedestrians rides home.