Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Jun 06, 2011 7:26:19 am PDT #22738 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Pix, I think you conducted yourself with absolute dignity and integrity in this situation.

Thank you so much. I really want (and as the new dept chair, need) to come across as dignified and professional. Any indication of spitefulness would damage my reputation with the senior admin right as I'm taking on this new position. (And ND knows that as much as I'd love to see him do that, he really can't. But yeah, I get the temptation. Thing is? I doubt Tino would even get the connection.) My hope is that the email will leave senior admin thinking that I handled it well.

sj, so much -ma for you. Can you request a sedative and explain the degree of your phobia?


Pix - Jun 06, 2011 7:27:07 am PDT #22739 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

t tacklehugs Vortex

It was so good to see you on Friday!


sj - Jun 06, 2011 7:34:43 am PDT #22740 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Pix, my doctor told me to double up on my anti-anxiety meds. So, hopefully that will help. Last time I was able to get through the procedure and then freaked out after, which I guess is better than not being able to do it at all.


Ginger - Jun 06, 2011 7:36:28 am PDT #22741 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

WTF? I kept feeling a stinging sensation under my arm and finally looked to discover that the armpit is covered with a nasty rash. I haven't changed soap, deodorant, detergent or anything else that touches the skin.

eta: I'm glad you got through it all right, sj.


sj - Jun 06, 2011 7:44:29 am PDT #22742 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ginger could it be a heat rash?

I just edited my post for clarity. It was last time that I got through it before freaking out. Still taking all the -ma I can get for today.


Barb - Jun 06, 2011 7:45:55 am PDT #22743 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Much ~ma sj, that you get through it with a minimum of stress.


Ginger - Jun 06, 2011 7:48:52 am PDT #22744 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

May this time be much less stressful, sj.

It could be heat rash. Heaven knows there's enough heat. However, the rest of me got as hot as my left armpit, so why is it so localized?


Barb - Jun 06, 2011 7:52:09 am PDT #22745 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Abrasion from a piece of clothing, maybe?


beekaytee - Jun 06, 2011 7:57:59 am PDT #22746 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Armpits can be one of the hottest, darkest and definitely most frictiony places on the body. During the most humid days of the summer, I often have to use BodyGlide to ward off the dreaded chafe.


Ginger - Jun 06, 2011 8:05:09 am PDT #22747 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I've been wearing the same ratty t-shirts as usual.