Bunch of wanna blessed-bes. Nowadays every girl with a henna tattoo and a spice rack thinks she's a sister to the dark ones.

Willow ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laga - Jun 04, 2011 6:22:15 am PDT #22661 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Barb is so very wise.

{{{Erin}}}

also yay Nate


javachik - Jun 04, 2011 6:29:44 am PDT #22662 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Barb, first, congrats on the way cool award! Secondly, you always sounded so miserable in Florida; I love reading the happy in all of your posts. It's always there even when you don't mention it.


DavidS - Jun 04, 2011 6:37:47 am PDT #22663 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Nate the Great! That's wonderful.

I know that Suzi's move has also been really good for CJ.

Sometimes you gotta pull out the geographical solution.

Erin, you're doing the lord's work. A freaky, nerdy lord who loves all his Lego lovin' fantasy fans.


Laga - Jun 04, 2011 6:40:32 am PDT #22664 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

How much do I love the idea of Fairy Gothmothers and Summer Camp for Weirdos? (I'll be the off season caretaker! Can we have goats?)


Barb - Jun 04, 2011 6:42:56 am PDT #22665 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Secondly, you always sounded so miserable in Florida; I love reading the happy in all of your posts. It's always there even when you don't mention it.

You know, Lewis and I, we own our choices. We loved Ohio and made the choice to move to Florida primarily for the kids-- while the last couple of years there wound up really miserable, it was still a valuable time for the kids to be closer to their grandparents. In hindsight, I might not make the same choice, but we did and I do try to see what positives came out of it and one of those things was the fact that the kids are close to their grandparents.

However, that said, the move to Florida was valuable on another level-- we were comfortable in Ohio. We loved it there. And I'm not certain that if we'd remained there, we would have ultimately made the move to Seattle, even though it was something we'd dreamt about doing for so many years. Well, I might have, but I'm a bit more adventurous than Lewis-- you generally have to give him a good reason to entertain such drastic change. It was the utter misery in Florida that prompted the change, so from that standpoint, I can't be sorry about it. It was what we needed to do at that time and it ultimately led us here. It's all good.


Strix - Jun 04, 2011 7:19:38 am PDT #22666 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Barb, that's so exciting for Nate! Excellent news!

I'm glad you moved too; things seem to be going much, much better for you there.

I cannot, cannot articulate enough how much letting me vent is allowing me to not fall (much) to her level, and is letting me blow off steam so I can be rational and keep M in the forefront, and not let my dislike of her and her methods affect that focus.

A freaky, nerdy lord who loves all his Lego lovin' fantasy fans.

I try to live ma life in the Lawd's light...

Pix, that absolutely cracks my shit up. We need t-shirts: "Charter Member of the Ass-kicking Smart Bitches Brigade."


Burrell - Jun 04, 2011 7:42:36 am PDT #22667 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Yay for Nate! Glad to hear he had such a good year.

It's been a good year for buffista sprog, hasn't it? I'm thinking of Nate and mac turning in stellar performances at school.


sj - Jun 04, 2011 7:46:08 am PDT #22668 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay, Nate! Barb, I'm glad your move has been so good for him.


Scrappy - Jun 04, 2011 7:46:50 am PDT #22669 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

It HAS.


Burrell - Jun 04, 2011 7:48:26 am PDT #22670 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

And both my kids had good years, Isaac had an amazing kinder year. I feel like we've been incredibly lucky with our kids' teachers so far.