New Hampshire tends toward more buttoned-up old-school WASPy, while Vermont gets more of the hippie live-off-the-land types. At least according to stereotype. Also, New Hampshire is much more likely to elect Republicans.
And NH has shit roads while VT has good ones. It's always fun to drive between red and blue states and watch the roads change. Sometimes it happens dramatically mid-bridge.
Hello all! Home from Morocco which was amazing. I spent one of my one-and-a-half days in Paris pretty sick but there are worse places to have the trots than within hearing distance of the bells of Notre Dame. And that half day spent strolling the Latin Quarter and cruising the Seine was nothing to complain about either.
Slept from midnight to 1:00 pm, catching up on the internets, paying some bills... like that. Laundry and some unpacking next.
Pictures and more sooner or later.
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Hey Trudy!
And here I was thinking some of VT's roads are bad. Although it turns out that my town decided to forgo doing some road maintenance last year and it's now costing them big time with damage the extra snowy winter caused.
I totally don't know what "randoid" is, so I'm going to answer...maybe?
Was it you who had the former chef brother, now manager who was fan of Rand? Maybe I misremember?
Was it you who had the former chef brother, now manager who was fan of Rand? Maybe I misremember?
Oh! As in Ayn Rand! Got it. I was thinking RAND Corp, or nifty new slang for "random," or...not Ayn Rand. Granted, I pretty much don't think about her unless I'm making the serial comma joke.
Yup, that's him.
I submitted a large estimate this morning for one of my project and now I'm waiting to hopefully review it with the project manager. He may call today before end of day and I hope he does. I hate waiting around to finish up the details on these, it's nerve wracking.
Also NH allowed billboards on non-highway roads and VT did not, which made a big difference in how pretty the roads are. Not sure if that is still in effect.
VT still doesn't have billboards (unless they started in the last 9 months), and it's always a shock when I get there, and then I get used to it and coming home is a shock.
Timely convo, y'all. I just came to vent.
M's mom called D in a panic this morning, having had a convo where his teacher reported M being depressed and trying to hide it. Now, this was brought up a month or so back, and my thought and suggestion was that this seemed not implausible, since he's gone through a great deal of emotional, geographical and familial changes in the last year alone, not to mention the last 4 in toto, and M should go to therapy.
THEIR solution to this issue is that D and I should pack up our lives and move to PA. That if we don't go into a tailspin of panic OMG!! about this, then D, and I, care less about M.
Oh, and also she's been putting words in my mouth, and told D over his last trip to PA to see M (6 days!), when D said "You know, M can always move back -- we have excellent FREE public schools in our hood, and if you're saying the problem can be solved by M seeing me more," her reply was
"Absolutely not," which I can completely understand, as M has a little bro and Mom and SD.
However, she then went on to say "Erin doesn't want him there" which I am flipping my shit over.
I have NEVER said this. I have admitted, to you all, to Dan, to my friends, that I am ok with being a PT stepmom in another state, but I have also told Dan that if M were to ever want to or need to live with us, I am completely down with that. Yes, it would be a major change, but I would be fine with it.
I am NOT, however, fine with, or going to, move to PA.
I am SO angry on so many levels. All 4 of us are supposed to Skype tonight (at 9 pm, fab) and they will know for certain tonight that the issue of us moving is a NON-ISSUE, and that it will not be brought up again, to M, to us, to anyone. It is MOOT.
And if she wants to talk about non-caring or absent father issues, she will get a crapload of REALITY FUCKING CHECK, because she's the fucking hypocrite who fucked around, was cheating under her husband's roof, dragged her son around 3 states in 4 years.
If M is depressed? You're the one he's with 95% of the time, due to YOUR decisions in life. I will take that blaming, pointing finger, and I will fucking choke you to death on your own behavior.
GRRRR, I HATES HER LIKE FIRE RIGHT NOW.
(Don't worry, I'm not planning on some big bitch-fight on Skype tonight, but I am done being nice about this bullshit "If you loved your son, you'd move to the East Coast" shit. The important thing is M gets what he needs and this bullshit hysteria and inability to see HER own myriad faults is preventing that. I am SO glad there will be time for me to cool down, because I am HOT right now.)
If M's not in therapy by the time he gets here in July, we will contact the mediator and have him evaluated by a child specialist here. I don't think there's anything major to worry about -- no self-harm, no Bx issues, no bullying, etc., but I think that there's no doubt that M. would benefit from an impartial ear to talk to.
