Joyce: You don't think it's too obvious? I think I look like I have a cat on my head. Buffy: But a very well groomed cat. Joyce: Well that's a comfort.

'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - May 19, 2011 11:57:42 am PDT #21669 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, but very glad for F that she has you there. This is TCG's step-grandmother, right? I think it's wonderful that you're spending so much time with her now. It's a gift to be able to be there with her, as hard as it is.

Yes, she is a wonderful, amazing woman who made me feel like a part of the family immediately. And, she adores TCG, so she is obviously a smart woman. It will be awful to lose her of course, but the hardest part really seems to be seeing her this way all weak and helpless.


meara - May 19, 2011 11:57:49 am PDT #21670 of 30000

Teppy, have you explained it to your doctor? They may be willing to try to squeeze you in more if they understand the urgency.

I'm worried about an upcoming change in insurance also--at the beginning of the year, they sold off my part of the company to another. They said it would happen (and insurance would change, etc) end of Q1, and then they said end of April...and now they're saying end of June. But each time I start wondering when I can make my doctor's appointments and stuff, and if the insurance will be irksome and if the docs will be covered, etc. Just made an eye appointment, and was like "no, I need to do it soon, so it's under this insurance!"


sj - May 19, 2011 12:16:47 pm PDT #21671 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

In happier news, I just bought tickets to see Neil Gaiman next month in New Hampshire. I can't wait.


Vortex - May 19, 2011 12:37:08 pm PDT #21672 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

You know, I wouldn't be so irritated by my mother wanting to ask me for advice for every little thing if she would just take the advice and make a decision. Don't ask for advice and then try to convince me that I'm wrong. I don't really care what she does, so I am disinclined to argue with her. She asks me what I think, I tell her. I don't need to defend my opinion.


Barb - May 19, 2011 12:39:38 pm PDT #21673 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

My mother invited herself along on my working trip to New York next week. Only for the two days I don't have too many set commitments, but STILL--

I've already informed her that I will not be at her disposal. We all know she doesn't really believe that, right?

Tell me the Universe is giving me Karma points.


Vortex - May 19, 2011 12:51:22 pm PDT #21674 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Two words for you Barb -- Separate Rooms (even if you have to pay for hers yourself, it will be worth it)


Hil R. - May 19, 2011 1:23:47 pm PDT #21675 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I should not engage in facebook arguments about Israel with my cousin. This could not possibly end well.


Anne W. - May 19, 2011 3:06:10 pm PDT #21676 of 30000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

I must share this lethal cuteness:

Kitten riding a tortoise


billytea - May 19, 2011 4:52:31 pm PDT #21677 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Speaking of lethal cuteness, I've uploaded new photos of Ryan. [link]

Highlights include his baptism: [link] and his 2nd birthday: [link]
In addition:

Young Jedi: [link]
Devouring his cultural heritage: [link]
Ready for (undoubtedly messy) action! [link]


Barb - May 19, 2011 5:25:30 pm PDT #21678 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

bt, it's just not right, that you allow the cuteness to continue unabated.

Do you understand just what havoc that's going to wreak as it develops?