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Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - May 06, 2011 11:39:17 am PDT #21000 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

If this had been correctly explained to me by Ceridian the FIRST time I called them (or the second, or the third, or the fourth). I could have just not sent the check, or put a stop payment on it. But now I can't.

I will have coverage so that's good. I just am not happy with having to make 2 dozen phone calls (appx) and getting different answers almost every single time.

It's like a much worse repeat of the Uhaul sitauation.


§ ita § - May 06, 2011 1:43:15 pm PDT #21001 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Health coverage is such a minefield. I don't know if anyone understands it.

Unrelatedly (SOO unrelatedly), I could browse sex toys forever. I can't believe the things people do for dirty nekkid fun. It never seems to end, and whoah, nellie, some of the prices.


amyth - May 06, 2011 1:43:22 pm PDT #21002 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

askye, that's totally frustrating. Urgh.

Yay, I have my phone! Thanks, y'all. My friends and co-workers are the grooviest. Now, after a several-hour nap, I realized I haven;t eaten anything yet today, and I walked a mile and a half to work this morning, so I'm ready to eat the world, but too lazy to cook. I think frozen Indian food from TJ's is in my future. Praise TJ's. And the tea I'm drinking right now, because, inexplicably, I'm freezing cold.


askye - May 06, 2011 1:59:08 pm PDT #21003 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Partly this is my fault becuase if I'd gotten my prescription filled the day before all this would have been avoided. But that doesn't change the fact that I was assured several times of things that turned out not to be true.

I'm going to get my prescription refilled and pay out of pocket. As soon as I get this letter detailing my options I'll fill it in and send it back. I do have the direct number of the person I spoke to so I can call her back and get this expedited.

But Will was here while I was on the phone. It cut in with my time with him, but it was nice because he was her to hug me and give me a shoulder to cry on, literally. And he helped me do the dishes.

My day started out really well. It finally stopped raining here and the sun was out. I so I walked to a church rummage sale, didn't find anything. Walked downtown and looked in the shops I hadn't been in yet. There's a seafood restaurant and they have a small shop attached that sells fresh seafood (they get fresh in every morning and whatever doesn't sell that day is used in the restaurant), local cheese, wine, and prepared foods. I also went to down to the used bookstore again and back home. I didn't walk fast but all in all it was about 2 miles round trip.

So far I've spent more time outside in Vermont than I normally would in Florida. It was so pretty today. It looks like there's on rain on the forecast for the next week. Which is good - Lake Champlain is flooding, people have had to evacuate, some rivers are flooding and there have been a few minor mudslides. It could take 60 days for the waters to recede.


smonster - May 06, 2011 2:31:44 pm PDT #21004 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Uggh, askye, that is ridic. And fucking annoying.

I just picked up two prescriptions, and I thought they were going to be full price b/c I thought my insurance had run out, but they weren't. So I didn't ask questions. If I have to go back and pay more later, fine, but je suis le tres broke right now.


sumi - May 06, 2011 2:51:43 pm PDT #21005 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!

Clearly with Lake Champlain flooding you need to keep your eyes peeled for Champ.


Strix - May 06, 2011 5:27:16 pm PDT #21006 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

smonster, take it as a gimme. This is awful, but they'll bill you and you can pay them AFTER you get some movin' done. They got money.

You don't. And you need drugs, dammit. (Wait, that didn't come out right...)


Pix - May 06, 2011 7:32:11 pm PDT #21007 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Why is it that no matter how much I know about body image and gender in the US, I still feel like crap when I see the models on TV?


Barb - May 06, 2011 7:49:46 pm PDT #21008 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Pix, you've been feeling absolutely shitty all week-- the body image demons see this as primo "Let's kick you when you're down," time.

Kick back. Or if you need, let us kick them. Hard.


Vortex - May 06, 2011 7:55:17 pm PDT #21009 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

You? Please! You're absolutely beautiful!