You turn on any of my crew, you turn on me.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Apr 26, 2011 4:20:28 am PDT #20500 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Askye, I'm glad you have that hitch in the works sorted out, even if it is leading to a less comfortable life for the moment. And yay for the cats being ok.

billytea, those are great pics of the penguins, but I would like photographic evidence of Ryan imitating their walk. Actually, I would like video evidence, but figure that is too much to hope for.

erin_o, that sounds like a lovely experience, except for the weirdness with Malachi. Poor cat.

bonny, I hope you got some rest eventually.

IOmememeN, I don't quite get why I am just now getting a bill for the co-pay for the doctor who saw me in the hospital, when the insurance got the statement, and paid their portion at the end of January. I feel even less in control of my medical bills now. And as Daniel said months ago, are they going to prescribe tranquilizers for when I get the bills?

On a much happier, sweeter note, yesterday after a particularly frustrating session with my therapist, I was having lots of angry thoughts on those topics while at work. While I succeeded in not letting that leak overtly into interactions with the folks I was working with, when I was out driving with one guy who has autism, a couple of times when I was deepest into a brown study, he tapped my arm to bring me out of it. And when we got back to the house, he gave me a hug. Spontaneously. He has let me hug him, and responded by touching one hand to my shoulder in the past.

This, and other instances that show a keen sensitivity, not just from this one person, but from others as well, make me loathe the way persons with autism are characterized on TV.


smonster - Apr 26, 2011 4:32:14 am PDT #20501 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

askye, I hope you get your stuff soon, and I'm glad the kitties are doing well.

WindSparrow, medical bills are teh suck. But how lovely that someone was there to keep you present.

Seska, have you looked into Dialectical Behavioral Training? It's been helpful for me and my sis and other Buffistas. Good balance of woo woo and highly practical, based on mindfulness.

Sweet suffering jeebus screaming crispies on a cracker, my friend is texting me that former org just laid off two people from their NOLA office, which is a small office with a lot of work. Not good. Glad I was in the first wave of layoffs.


smonster - Apr 26, 2011 4:36:07 am PDT #20502 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

On a related note - something about that place felt creepy and familiar, and I finally figured it out. Remember the creepy warren in Watership Down? Where everything was great on the surface, but poison underneath? Yeah, just like that.


beth b - Apr 26, 2011 5:01:33 am PDT #20503 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

penguins!

people to help!

furiture!

I am pretending to be awake


Nora Deirdre - Apr 26, 2011 5:10:56 am PDT #20504 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

condolences and much ~ma to Trudy and family.

smonster, in a perfect world, someone would buy our house in Salem, we'd buy either the house we live in and rent the rental unit to you, or we'd get a much bigger place where you could crash. But, first week of June is still a bit of a ways off, who knows!?


Hil R. - Apr 26, 2011 5:11:30 am PDT #20505 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm giving a talk at combinatorics seminar today. I haven't given a talk about my own research in almost a year now. I'm mostly just hoping that I don't say anything obviously wrong.


Fred Pete - Apr 26, 2011 5:14:04 am PDT #20506 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

All condolences to Trudy and family.


amyth - Apr 26, 2011 5:15:18 am PDT #20507 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

So sorry, Trudy. Condolences and love to your whole family.


erikaj - Apr 26, 2011 5:17:45 am PDT #20508 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

All I know about Combinatorics is that Amita studied it...you'll do way better than I.


smonster - Apr 26, 2011 5:37:23 am PDT #20509 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Aw, thanks, Nora. That would be nice.