Actually not needing validation right now, but thank you.

Buffy ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Apr 07, 2011 3:54:40 pm PDT #19319 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Tep, i just spent a fruitless 20 minutes looking up solutions for labial wound healing, and google-fu is giving me no love. Saline rinse seems to be the only constant. I hope it heals SOON -- goolie pain is no joke.

After my last post, I went to check on it (using, seriously, a hand mirror and a headlamp, and no, Tim was not *wearing* the headlamp), and it looks much better than yesterday. For the past week it's been about the size of a pencil eraser, and today it was less than half that size. The only thing I did different was start the topical steroid last night. IIRC, Cass was the one who suggested a steroid cream, so: CASS FTW!!!!!

Completely unrelatedly, I just had a moment where I realized how fucking jaded I am. During Big Bang Theory (Amy Farrah Fowler RULZ), there was a commercial for CSI. Apparently Lady Heather is in this episode. The commercial made it seem like it's about kitty play (yes, people who dress like kitties -- not in a full suit like a furry would, but ears and a tail and a collar and sometimes paws...which might not seem like much of a distinction between kitty play and furries, but apparently they are 2 different camps).

My first thought, hand to god? "THAT'S not so weird...."

I can never see Lady Heather without thinking "Julie Cooper!" Because Julie Cooper ROCKS.


Hil R. - Apr 07, 2011 4:09:58 pm PDT #19320 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Amy Farrah Fowler RULZ

I love her.


Steph L. - Apr 07, 2011 4:17:18 pm PDT #19321 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Amy Farrah Fowler RULZ

I love her.

Last week, with the liqeur on the ice cream, was awesome. ("We're going to a bar...because I *do* that now.")


sj - Apr 07, 2011 4:18:55 pm PDT #19322 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Amy Farrah Fowler RULZ

Worth repeating!

My first thought, hand to god? "THAT'S not so weird...."

I don't watch CSI anymore, but I rarely thought the "weird" things on CSI were very weird.


Cass - Apr 07, 2011 4:23:04 pm PDT #19323 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

The only thing I did different was start the topical steroid last night. IIRC, Cass was the one who suggested a steroid cream, so: CASS FTW!!!!!

I am the goolie whisperer, yo.

A saline soak might help the actual wound heal too if it needs more encouragement. So glad you are getting some relief.


Typo Boy - Apr 07, 2011 4:31:09 pm PDT #19324 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

epsom salts may work better than regular saline solution. Don't know medically, but from personal experience they hurt less and reduce inflamation better.


Strix - Apr 07, 2011 4:54:13 pm PDT #19325 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

The sites I saw recced a weak saline solution or a sitz bath.

My husband and I just made out 1 year anniversary plansfor Saturday! We are going to Extra Virgin, a Michael Smith tapas bar that we've been to with friends once (the pork belly and chickpea frites were come-to-jesus delish) and it's supposed to hit a low of 71, so we have a reservation on the patio and are going to drinking fancy cocktails, eat yummy food and then walk around and check out galleries.

Fun!


Steph L. - Apr 07, 2011 5:07:47 pm PDT #19326 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Erin, how are you married for ONE YEAR already?!?

I don't watch CSI anymore, but I rarely thought the "weird" things on CSI were very weird.

I was afraid my weird-o-meter was broken. I mean, I *do* find stuff weird (::cough::Gor::cough::), but human kitties is farly tame. No pun intended.


Strix - Apr 07, 2011 5:41:24 pm PDT #19327 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Erin, how are you married for ONE YEAR already?!?

Dude, don't ask me! I am still all "Married? Me? WHAADAFUCK...?!"

But we have weathered my craziness, his social anxiety, almost-foreclosure, his inability to clean a bathroom or change the sheets and my stupid job stuff, so it is still pretty awesome!

Plus, we both want to celebrate our marriage with the belly of the pig, cheese, liquor and violent action movies -- what could be better?!


Barb - Apr 07, 2011 5:59:42 pm PDT #19328 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Plus, we both want to celebrate our marriage with the belly of the pig, cheese, liquor and violent action movies -- what could be better?!

Sounds like a party, bebe!

And YAY!