I can beat up demons until the cows come home, and then I can beat up the cows.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


billytea - Mar 28, 2011 8:43:58 pm PDT #18590 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

SWINTON.


Typo Boy - Mar 28, 2011 8:48:10 pm PDT #18591 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Yes! [link]


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Mar 28, 2011 9:42:26 pm PDT #18592 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Less-pain~ma for sj and Hil.

I went on this at the weekend: [link]

The wheelchair-users were at the front, which was very helpful. I'm hoping to write it up at 'Where's the Benefit' this week. It was awesome (despite the media's exclusive focus on a few renegade troublemakers out of 500,000 peaceful marchers). Concerningly, the government is now threatening to remove the right to protest from anyone it chooses. Scary times we live in.

Hope everyone's well. I wrote two conference proposals in two hours yesterday and now I am tired. Here's hoping I get one of them accepted! Now I just have to read a book on something called teleological realism before Thursday and write a research design in the next week. But I have chosen a dress for my wedding, which is mitigating the stress somewhat.


Beverly - Mar 28, 2011 9:46:10 pm PDT #18593 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Askye, there is much to love about finding yourself in all new surroundings. As several here have attested. All the best to you in your move!

Less pain to sj.

More clear to smonster.

Aims, the ones who bullied never believed it was "all that bad" on the ones who were bullied. She needs reminding--and some clear information that isn't "whining". School her. I know you can do it.

Book-ma, Barb.

The world needs Ryan pictures every blinkin' day.


Zenkitty - Mar 29, 2011 3:19:19 am PDT #18594 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Aims, the ones who bullied never believed it was "all that bad" on the ones who were bullied. She needs reminding--and some clear information that isn't "whining". School her. I know you can do it.

Yeah, this. I said it too, earlier, but I was less polite and well-spoken than Beverly, so I didn't post it.

She's trying to remind me that I am doing a lot lately, and that just going to PT today rather than staying home with the pain should be considered somewhat of a victory.

This is very much true. Just showing up at PT and doing the best you can do that day is moving forward, not backwards. Even if you can't do a "proper" workout, you're making progress.


WindSparrow - Mar 29, 2011 3:59:33 am PDT #18595 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Just showing up at PT and doing the best you can do that day is moving forward, not backwards. Even if you can't do a "proper" workout, you're making progress.

So very this.

Hil, I hope you managed to get some sleep, at least. And I hope that today is less painful for you.

I went on this at the weekend: [link]

That looks tres cool. This,

Concerningly, the government is now threatening to remove the right to protest from anyone it chooses. Scary times we live in.
however, does not. I'm quite terrified of what I see happening in the U.S. and in the U.K. with regards to the push to redistribute the wealth of the middle and lower classes right on up to the upper class. What I think that most politicians who are willing to push that agenda fail to see, is that their mega-rich backers do not see them as equals, but as servants - well-paid servants, to be sure, but merely servants. I think the politicians who do realize it think they are serving in heaven. The ones who don't probably have no clue that they are reigning in hell.

But I have chosen a dress for my wedding, which is mitigating the stress somewhat.

Squeeeeeeeee! I can't wait to see pics! Damn, where's that transporter technology? If I could get there, I would totally gate-crash your wedding. P.S. good luck with those conference proposals.


Steph L. - Mar 29, 2011 5:02:47 am PDT #18596 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I am really moderately freaked out. The weird lesion things that my OB/GYN diagnosed as HSV over a month ago (despite a negative culture -- but she said it could have been negative because I had had the symptoms for so long the virus was probably no longer active) has not healed. So it's been giving me trouble for a little over 2 months.

Went back to OB/GYN at some ungodly hour this morning, and she was concerned that it hadn't healed -- although she said it looked a tiny bit better -- and that, looking at it today, it doesn't look like HSV. So she biopsied it (which was, I have to say, REALLY painful) for more tests, including possibly HPV.

I know HPV is common (almost as common as HSV, it seems), but I'm just...freaked out. Partly because I want this to be all gone, and partly because I want to goddamn know what EXACTLY is is, and partly because I don't know what it means in terms of a prognosis.

So. The biopsy results won't be back until Monday, so I'm trying to be chill and failing miserably. And I need to step away from WebMD.


beth b - Mar 29, 2011 5:20:48 am PDT #18597 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sending you chil ma~~ Steph. As much as i can because i would be in the exact same place as you are.


brenda m - Mar 29, 2011 5:23:15 am PDT #18598 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Ack. Chill is a tall order right now, but I hope you can find it somehow.


Steph L. - Mar 29, 2011 5:26:35 am PDT #18599 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

And in a way, the really worst part is the killing effect on our sex life. I know there's stuff we *can* do, but having a painful lesion on one's ladyparts for 2 months pretty much makes you feel the exact opposite of sexy.