It's not like she blew me off. She just left with another guy, that's all.

Riley ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Sep 09, 2010 2:26:47 am PDT #1856 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

i'm realizing more and more that internet dating is like internet shopping. I can go to overstock.com and look for good deals on sheets, or match.com and peruse the local singles. Not especially encouraging. At least i don't have to pay for shipping.


Laga - Sep 09, 2010 2:41:20 am PDT #1857 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Holy cow it's almost 5am. I'm going to try closing my eyes for a while.


smonster - Sep 09, 2010 2:44:15 am PDT #1858 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy birthday, Spidra!!! I hope you have a lovely day.

erin, I know the feeling. I have no energy for dating right now.

No word yet from bonny.


brenda m - Sep 09, 2010 3:15:19 am PDT #1859 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Happy birthday, Spidra!

With the conversation about insecurity and not feeling like anyone really genuinely likes you, I had a nice antidote to it yesterday. Mid-year performance reviews, and when my boss asked our primary internal clients for feedback got this:

"Brenda is absolutely the best I have ever worked with on all counts"!

Oy. (Now if only I can put the Impostor Syndrome to rest.)


Sparky1 - Sep 09, 2010 3:16:24 am PDT #1860 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Happy Birthday, Spidra!

I'll try calling bonny a little later this morning, and if she doesn't answer I'll try Bartleby's babysitters at their store after they open at 11.


Steph L. - Sep 09, 2010 3:31:25 am PDT #1861 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Happy Birthday, Spidra!

Thanks, smonster and Sparky, for checking up on bonny.


brenda m - Sep 09, 2010 3:39:32 am PDT #1862 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yeah, please keep us posted.

Way too much scary shit going on these days. WTF, world?


smonster - Sep 09, 2010 3:54:42 am PDT #1863 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I'll try calling bonny a little later this morning, and if she doesn't answer I'll try Bartleby's babysitters at their store after they open at 11.

Oh, good. I was going to go there next, but it might seem a little less weird coming from someone relatively local. Thanks, love.


Sparky1 - Sep 09, 2010 4:06:02 am PDT #1864 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

No answer at bonny's phone, but I left a message to tell her we're worried and thinking about her.


Hil R. - Sep 09, 2010 4:13:31 am PDT #1865 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Ow. My ankle hurts. If it were a regular day, I'd put on the TENS unit and turn it on throughout the day, but I'm going to synagogue, and walking into a synagogue with a battery pack at my waist and wires running down my leg seems like a bad idea.