Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Erin, that school sounds like a horror to work at. I wish you luck finding a better place.
I don't know what to do about my hair. People told me it looked really good short, but after seeing some photos, I think I looked pinheaded. Maybe if I were still thin. I really didn't like having a naked nape, either. Only twice did I get a short haircut that I really liked; once from a random stylist at the cheapo place, surprise; and the first time I ever cut it short - but that stylist was never able to re-create the look she first gave me, and I was always disappointed. The way it curls, it's really hard to get it to look right around my face - I end up with little horns. I like having long hair. In the summer, short hair became a pain to keep off my face, because I couldn't put it back. And I hate to have to keep going to get it cut every month. So, for me, it's long hair. (Sorry, Hec.)
Mmm, I don't think I qualify for unemployment; it's an at-will contract anyway, so they can fire me at any time, no reason, no warning, and I'm just not getting a contract renewed.
Anyway, I got a note back from That Place, asking me to do 6 writing exercises, which seems pretty awesome and positive. Four of the 6 exercises are -- BONUS -- on books I am teaching this semester! Woo!
I told her frankly if they liked my writing, they would be getting someone who could write as much as they need after April, and furthermore, someone who can read 4 books a day.
Basically, the site is writing Buffista-style snarky but intelligent study guides for students. Um. Who do I have to KILL to do this?
And I have another freelance writing gig I haven't been contributing to as much as I would like because of my insane work schedule. So. Things will be OK if I just keep my head on straight and keep my nose to the plow and my hand to the grindstone. Or something.
Off to write!
you have to keep cutting it. A lot. THAT'S the pain.
Well, if you care how it looks, sure. The magic is in letting go. Which is why I haven't cut my hair in...TWO MONTHS.
It's pretty crazy, I know.
Erin, I'm glad you're braced for this, at least. I hope you can make the best of the situation.
I get my hair cut maybe once a year, in the spring when it gets hot. I'm lucky in having naturally curly hair that will move itself out of the way when it's short. I will take scissors to the bits around my face when they get annoying, and the curl will disguise any unevenness.
I guess there's a reason my straight-as-a-stick-haired sister tried to chop off all my hair when I was a baby.
My hair right now is the longest it's ever been, almost past my ears. I'm not sure what to do with it. I don't want to cut it back short, but I want to make it a little more manageable as it grows long, just to try it.
Wait wait, you mean my #1 Minion?! Ha! That's funny.
Yep! That would be her!!
Erin, I hope That Place works out for you. It sounds terrific.
I'm letting my hair grow out. I finally got it trimmed in the back so the grown out layers are gone. I'm mostly doing this because I've decided to be cheap and I've realized I can wash my hair at night, let it dry while I'm asleep, and it doesn't look bad. So it saves time in the morning.
Also I have a lead on an apartment. I sent an application, the landlady contacted me about my move in date, they want it rented April 1 and someone else is interested but not until May 1. I emailed her back I could move at the end of April and I'm willing to pay for that plus May in advance.
So I'm crossing my fingers but trying not to get too hopeful.
I need to redo my resume and I can never figure out my problem of having worked in 1 place but getting paid through 3 different companies. It went : temp agency, company temp - then they saw the position wouldn't be made perm, so another temp agency.
Put the place name for the job, then in the description you can indicate who actually paid you if you feel you need to.
The only way I get my hair cut with any kind of regularity is if I make the next appointment while I'm standing there paying for the current one. Drives me nuts that they rarely ask, so I have to do the remembering. (Tabatha would have something to say about that.)
Once my hair starts getting anywhere close to shoulder length it starts getting all scraggly and flat. It's just way too fine. Short works way better when I can keep on top of it, and I think it suits my face better anyway.
I think I'm going to try rag curling my hair tonight and see if that will get my hair to actually hold a curl.