I am not...I am not the damsel in distress. I am not some case. I have to work this. I've lived in a cave for 5 years in a world where they killed my kind like cattle. I am not going to be cut down by some monster flu. I am better than that. What a wonder...how very scared I am.

Fred ,'A Hole in the World'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DCJensen - Mar 11, 2011 8:20:28 pm PST #17309 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

I've been skimming and billytea's post just made my head explode.

Are you posting from the 50's now, billytea?


billytea - Mar 11, 2011 10:00:03 pm PST #17310 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Are you posting from the 50's now, billytea?

Seriously. My industry has more than its fair share of alpha male crap, but I've never before worked in a place with such little regard for this stuff. Hell, in my Philadelphia office I saw disciplinary action taken against someone for emailing an anti-gay joke. I really have no experience dealing with this kind of thing before.


hippocampus - Mar 12, 2011 1:44:44 am PST #17311 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Billytea, my sister's industry is like that. With added 'it's bad luck for a woman to touch anything on a boat' goodness. I have so much admiration for how she gets things done and sets people straight when she can.

Steph, Kat, Pix, and all the buffistas whom the universe needs to take out to a four-star dinner and apologize, I hope things turn around. Steph, I hope Tim's ex' son gets to Texas as soon as possible.

I'm getting my Japan news from Rachel Maddow tweets and Ginger. And hoping.

Zuisa, I'm glad you are safe in Australia. To everyone worried about family and friends in Japan, I have no words, only much ~ma and hope. Japan~ma, planet.

(I'm afraid that was something of a cross-thread meara, but I'm tiny screened & low battery. It's what I can do. )


Laura - Mar 12, 2011 3:04:26 am PST #17312 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yikes, billytea. I am blessed to be surrounded by wonderful men that would be equally appalled by such attitudes. It is rare when I encounter blatant sexism or bigotry, mostly because I protect and shelter myself. This protection makes it that much more shocking when I hear or experience it first hand. I applaud people who attack the attitudes head on, Go Shir! (and I know others too, but Shir comes to mind first because she is the opposite of all talk and no action)

Watching Japan reports. Scary stuff.


Ginger - Mar 12, 2011 4:48:16 am PST #17313 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Mr Peabody had another seizure in the middle of the night, so I guess it's back to the drawing board as to the cause. He seems fine today, so I guess I'll take him back to the vet Monday. Poor boo.


Strix - Mar 12, 2011 5:25:02 am PST #17314 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Ginger, SO not a vet, but when our Scottie had seizures, it was from an undersized pancreas that wasn't functioning properly. I don't know if this is helpful.

BT, wow. That's...wow. I wouldn't be able to shut myself up.

"You guys are totally right! I think all our wives and daughters and mothers should have to pass this wall test in order to get a job they are qualified for! My wife is all for it; she didn't get the last job she applied for, but she was fine with it, because all the guys had to pass the same test, but with their dicks. I know all you guys pass, because you are giant dicks!"

UGH.

Tep, that sounds...frustrating. Xanax is your friend?


Laura - Mar 12, 2011 6:18:59 am PST #17315 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Poor Mr Peabody. I know seizures can be from a number of sources. Brandy had them in clusters which I eventually figured out happened most frequently after holidays. Too many people scraps, maybe the salt level. At any rate, she hasn't had any seizures in years, but she is a bit pissed about the lack of goodies.


Barb - Mar 12, 2011 6:37:31 am PST #17316 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Okay, this might be the world's grossest question, but anybody have any idea how quickly the eyes would deteriorate post-mortem?

Yes, this is a writing research question.


Hil R. - Mar 12, 2011 6:45:30 am PST #17317 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm at an airport again. Going back home now. Vacation was nice - I sat on the beach and went swimming and went on a boat to learn about fish and went to a bird sanctuary and a circus museum. Now, back to real life.


SailAweigh - Mar 12, 2011 7:04:14 am PST #17318 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

::waits for erika to come answer Barb's question::

Hil, that does sound relaxing! I would kill for a beach right about now.