Thank goodness Daniel is okay. A pox on his boss.

Yay, meara!!! Have mucho fun!

Andi, that is nutso. So now, of course, Daniel won't be able to get home tonight, will he?

Andi, that is nutso. So now, of course, Daniel won't be able to get home tonight, will he?

He's already told the boss which hotel he stayed at last time, and what type of suite. I wish he could ask to be paid for the hours on the road.

I'm not sure how much snow we've had, because it's not coming down, it's coming sideways. Some bits of the sidewalk was only 2" deep, but some was at least 6". And it has changed consistency, gotten kind of crunchy/pellet-like.

I wish he could ask to be paid for the hours on the road.

He needs to get danger pay. What the hell.

Buena suerte, meara! Or however you spell good luck in Spanish.

Hiya meara!

I've been exchanging emails with a guy from eHarmony. Then we sent each other our phone numbers. And he hasn't called me, and I've been way too nervous to call him. I need to get past this -- this guy seems really great. Normal people are able to make phone calls. I should be able to do this. Tomorrow.

Script it, Hil. Have a script for if he picks up, and a script for leaving a VM. Either way, if you practice, like a call for an interview, it takes some of the tension out. "Hey, this is Hillary; we've been emailing? I have some time free next week and I'd like to see if you wanted to get a coffee/smoothie/tattoo/dinner. Would Tuesday or Thursday after 6 work or you? Let me know by Monday night. Talk to you soon!"

Have 2 potential times and 2 potential choices picked out; that "Um, so whaddya YOU wanna do?" thing makes phone calls worse. You want to offer choice, but not so much choice that a guy gets paralyzed.

And if he doesn't want to meet, you can find out now, and move on.

You can approach it as an Onerous Task (it kinda is, you know; An Interview to See If You Can See If Are Compatible) and be all "OK, I'm gonna call!" on here, then report back!

Thanks, Erin.

He lives three hours away, so coordinating meeting would take some work. From the emailing, we do seem pretty compatible. Maybe he's also got phone anxiety.

coffee/smoothie/tattoo/dinner

snerk

Calling just to chat can be flop sweat-inducing in men and women; broach it like "I've really enjoyed emailing with you; the thought of phone conversations makes me a little nervous -- I always worry that I babble or that I'll run out of things to say, but I'd like to try it. I feel like you'd be even more funny/thoughtful/clever on the phone. You want to try to communicate a bit the old-fashioned way?"

You can leave out "And I really want to see if you're a mouth-breather so I can go back to wasting my time on network TV if you are."

Just got the Snow Day call!