Wesley: We were fighting on opposite sides, but it was the same war. Fred: but you hated her…didn't you? Wesley: It's not always about holding hands.

'Shells'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Vortex - Sep 07, 2010 11:54:06 am PDT #1502 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Grrr. On the phone with new insurance company. New mail order pharmacy does not carry the generic I need. The other generic, which they do carry doesn't work (three months of cramping and blood clots are pretty good evidence in my book). So, the only way to solve my problem is to either pay $12 every month and haul my ass down to CVS where there is no parking, or take an extra visit to my doctor so that he can write me a perscription for something else. Is it just me, or shouldn't there be another way to deal with this?


§ ita § - Sep 07, 2010 11:57:23 am PDT #1503 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My immediate family are fierce interruptors. So heated discussions get louder and louder as everyone tries to talk over everyone else, never mind no one can hear shit.

It's made me really conscious of doing it to other people (I think), because I know we seem like a pack of wolves to outsiders.

Introverts in our family are not like introverts elsewhere. My parents still think I'm shy enough to warrant intervention.


Vortex - Sep 07, 2010 12:03:24 pm PDT #1504 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

My brother thought that he had a weak personality until he went to college. He realized that it wasn't that he had a weak personality, it's that everyone else's personality in the family was on steroids.


omnis_audis - Sep 07, 2010 12:04:45 pm PDT #1505 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Seems I did too good of a job yesterday at outside work gig. And today they don't need me. Oh well. There goes a couple hundred bucks. Hopefully being cool about it will mean they will open the door for future shows a bit easier. But hey, that means I got the day to myself. In a very introverted way (yes, I'm reading the article). Only on page one so far, aside from the happiness thing, the other thing I am boggled with, that there is a Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast.

I'm not sure if I'm more on the shy side, or introvert side.


erikaj - Sep 07, 2010 12:05:51 pm PDT #1506 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

I'm right on the border of introverted and extroverted. Like James Taylor and Amy Tan, who have similar Meyers- Briggs as me.(Which I wouldn't remember if the grouping hadn't been a little odd.)


Jars - Sep 07, 2010 12:10:38 pm PDT #1507 of 30000

When I was a kid, people always told me I was shy, and then a teacher told me that shyness was just arrogance, because I expected people to be paying attention to me, so I interacted more after that. Which, obviously I was not shy, just introverted, and the teacher was a bitch.

ETA - "Their cognitive fatigue testifies to the fact that "acting counter-dispositionally is depleting."" is the truest thing ever. I can be as socially gregarious as you like, but I will have a limit and I will need to sit quietly and maybe nap afterwards. That shit is work.


Atropa - Sep 07, 2010 12:27:54 pm PDT #1508 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I know I'm not an introvert, but after a lot of socializing, I need a quiet night or two hermiting.


Vortex - Sep 07, 2010 12:28:14 pm PDT #1509 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I'm not sure if I'm more on the shy side, or introvert side.

I think that the difference is that shy people want to interract, but are unable to, but introverts just don't want to interact.

eta:

I know I'm not an introvert, but after a lot of socializing, I need a quiet night or two hermiting.

Me too, and my psychologist friend says that's what makes me an introvert, not how you act, but how you recharge.


smonster - Sep 07, 2010 12:30:49 pm PDT #1510 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I am a shy extrovert.

OMG I said I'd phonebank tonight but I am still exhausted and feeling slightly nauseated. How shitty am I if I cancel?


Atropa - Sep 07, 2010 12:32:12 pm PDT #1511 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Me too, and my psychologist friend says that's what makes me an introvert, not how you act, but how you recharge.

Huh. Really? Because in no universe would I describe myself as an introvert. I just also need time to myself every now and then.