Yeah, but you're an amateur fry cook and I come from a long line of fry cooks that don't live past 25.

Buffy ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Jan 26, 2011 1:42:03 pm PST #14004 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oof. Driving up and down hills when the roads aren't plowed yet is not fun. My car handles skids really well, though.


omnis_audis - Jan 26, 2011 2:08:10 pm PST #14005 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Anyone else picturing Hil doing Tokyo Drift?

ION - in last meeting for the day. Exhausted! One of the students has a glass bottle of Mexico Coke Cola (sugar instead of HFCS), and I am wanting one so much now!! The drive home should be fun.


askye - Jan 26, 2011 2:08:50 pm PST #14006 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

quester I've gotten some flack for not being friendly enough and getting dinged by a former supervisor for not being chipper enough in the mornings. Normally when she would come in I'd say "hi" or "morning" or just nod at her if I was busy on the phone or something. I realized she wanted me to say not just "Good Morning" but "Good Morning Her Name". So I started doing that and it made a difference and i'm better about saying people's names when I greet them.

My current boss is pretty easy going. I get treated like an adult and have some lee way in how I treat people on the phone. I work for an association so I have to be polite and grin and bear it for any member or caller who is part of the profession we represent. But if someone who is just "the public" calls and starts to get rude or verbally abusive, or just plain annoying I have my boss's (and his boss's) permission to hang up on them.


Connie Neil - Jan 26, 2011 2:19:10 pm PST #14007 of 30000
brillig

I never say people's names because I don't remember them, especially when I see them. I hear people's voices, but the cubicle walls are high so I don't see the faces. I've been too lazy to make an effort, too, to be honest. And some of the people I don't want to talk to because they're creepy!


askye - Jan 26, 2011 2:25:10 pm PST #14008 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Where I work I know most people's faces and names now because they walk by my desk all the time. I can't tell where anyone's office is but I know them

I don't know people who work upstairs in the other building.

Also there's a lot of gossip and stuff that goes on in the reception area. We don't have people walking in off the streets so I've found stuff I out I shouldn't have known.

Well we get a lot of solicitor's who ignore our No Soliciting Sign and then get pissed when I tell them they have to leave.


Hil R. - Jan 26, 2011 2:30:36 pm PST #14009 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I so don't want to drive in to work tomorrow morning. The roads will be a mess still. I don't teach on Thursdays, but I've got a meeting I need to go to in the morning.


Scrappy - Jan 26, 2011 2:55:11 pm PST #14010 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Quester--I don't think you have to change yourself, you simply have to change a few of your behaviors. A coach could help you pinpoint specific things to work on--eye contaqct, tone of voice, smiling, whatever, and you will be able to freaking ace the workplace without changing who you are inside.


Vortex - Jan 26, 2011 2:57:56 pm PST #14011 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Hil, maybe you'll get lucky and it will be cancelled. I have a 3PM meeting tomorrow, but I can walk there.


quester - Jan 26, 2011 3:18:33 pm PST #14012 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Well, have a short-term temp job at the Airport, telling people where the bathroom is. I train tomorrow and then I work, not this weekend, but next weekend.

I fear I will not be able to cover the bills again. I need to remember to go to the Unemployment Office and see if I can file for last week. Oh, joy.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 26, 2011 3:36:42 pm PST #14013 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Dear ex-neighbor: after you sic your lawyer on me for not being proactive with dealing with my crazy tenant, do not be surprised that when I do say something to her about your complaints (and in a mild way, seriously) she goes insane on you. Did you think I was ignoring her just to annoy you? Apparently so.