Book: I believe I just... I think I'm on the wrong ship. Inara: Maybe. Or maybe you're exactly where you ought to be.

'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


billytea - Jan 26, 2011 1:01:52 pm PST #14000 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I have wholly unreasonable love for SE:SA's "Like This Like That".

I have often been picked up as being not friendly enough in the office. And I work with actuaries. (Used to, anyway.)

I like my current job, but I have no desire whatsoever to be friends with most of my work colleagues, especially those with whom I work most closely. Whenever we have a social do, over 90% of the conversation is on one of two subjects:

1. Sports, specifically Aussie Rules, cricket and soccer (none of which particularly interest me)
2. What I would euphemistically describe as 'gender relations'.

I spent most of these events alternately bored and appalled. Not looking to continue the experience outside of work hours.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 26, 2011 1:02:50 pm PST #14001 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Condo suckfest continues. Just crossing everything that the crazy lady living there leaves as planned.


beth b - Jan 26, 2011 1:04:01 pm PST #14002 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

My neighborhood is making me cry today. A neighbor moved to oregan to help her son get a kidney transplant. His first was at age 7 - and today he got another. Her thank you was enough, but then some one else got on the egroup and started listing all the good things that people do for each other around here. there may be a huge amount of stupid stuff on the egroup - like traffic stories - but a good place


beth b - Jan 26, 2011 1:04:48 pm PST #14003 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Wishing you the best Nora


Hil R. - Jan 26, 2011 1:42:03 pm PST #14004 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oof. Driving up and down hills when the roads aren't plowed yet is not fun. My car handles skids really well, though.


omnis_audis - Jan 26, 2011 2:08:10 pm PST #14005 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Anyone else picturing Hil doing Tokyo Drift?

ION - in last meeting for the day. Exhausted! One of the students has a glass bottle of Mexico Coke Cola (sugar instead of HFCS), and I am wanting one so much now!! The drive home should be fun.


askye - Jan 26, 2011 2:08:50 pm PST #14006 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

quester I've gotten some flack for not being friendly enough and getting dinged by a former supervisor for not being chipper enough in the mornings. Normally when she would come in I'd say "hi" or "morning" or just nod at her if I was busy on the phone or something. I realized she wanted me to say not just "Good Morning" but "Good Morning Her Name". So I started doing that and it made a difference and i'm better about saying people's names when I greet them.

My current boss is pretty easy going. I get treated like an adult and have some lee way in how I treat people on the phone. I work for an association so I have to be polite and grin and bear it for any member or caller who is part of the profession we represent. But if someone who is just "the public" calls and starts to get rude or verbally abusive, or just plain annoying I have my boss's (and his boss's) permission to hang up on them.


Connie Neil - Jan 26, 2011 2:19:10 pm PST #14007 of 30000
brillig

I never say people's names because I don't remember them, especially when I see them. I hear people's voices, but the cubicle walls are high so I don't see the faces. I've been too lazy to make an effort, too, to be honest. And some of the people I don't want to talk to because they're creepy!


askye - Jan 26, 2011 2:25:10 pm PST #14008 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Where I work I know most people's faces and names now because they walk by my desk all the time. I can't tell where anyone's office is but I know them

I don't know people who work upstairs in the other building.

Also there's a lot of gossip and stuff that goes on in the reception area. We don't have people walking in off the streets so I've found stuff I out I shouldn't have known.

Well we get a lot of solicitor's who ignore our No Soliciting Sign and then get pissed when I tell them they have to leave.


Hil R. - Jan 26, 2011 2:30:36 pm PST #14009 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I so don't want to drive in to work tomorrow morning. The roads will be a mess still. I don't teach on Thursdays, but I've got a meeting I need to go to in the morning.