I didn't get the job because I don't have an outgoing enough personality!
What kind of job was it, sign dancer?
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Connie Neil - Jan 26, 2011 8:03:59 am PST #13964 of 30000
brillig
Liese S. - Jan 26, 2011 8:04:06 am PST #13965 of 30000
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I just want a boss that I can trust. Is that so wrong?
Not so wrong! I hate people that tell you what you want to hear. One of our pastors is like that...basically the same personality as when he was a serious addict. Drives me no end of crazy. And I'm sure I rub him the wrong way too, because I always tell him how it is, even when I know he doesn't want to know it. Why can't people just say stuff that's true?
Anyway, yeah, good luck.
lisah - Jan 26, 2011 8:05:36 am PST #13966 of 30000
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oh, quester, I'm sorry. Have you tried working with a job coach or someone like that who would give you honest feedback on how you come across in an interview?
quester - Jan 26, 2011 8:09:05 am PST #13967 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
This time it was a dispatcher at a tech company. 2 weeks ago it was a receptionist at an insurance company. I can't believe this is a legitimate critisism! It's not like I don't speak to people or frown at them all the time.
No, I'm not gifted at making chit-chat and I don't feel comfortable joking around until I know people better. Why does that disqualify me for jobs?
I guess I'm not exuding confidence. Well, I've been unemployed for 2 years so, no, I don't have a lot to spare!
amyth - Jan 26, 2011 8:09:12 am PST #13968 of 30000
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quester, wtf. Is that what they said? That's really frustrating.
quester - Jan 26, 2011 8:10:30 am PST #13969 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
Have you tried working with a job coach or someone like that who would give you honest feedback on how you come across in an interview?
No, I haven't done that. I supposed I should but it seems very onerrous to me.
quester - Jan 26, 2011 8:11:49 am PST #13970 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
Is that what they said?
That is the gist of the feedback I'm getting from the Temp Agency.
ARRRRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!
Sparky1 - Jan 26, 2011 8:16:25 am PST #13971 of 30000
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That's so frustrating, quester. I'm sorry.
Connie Neil - Jan 26, 2011 8:35:32 am PST #13972 of 30000
brillig
In my yearly review I got dinged for not being friendly with my coworkers. Apparently I'm not chatty enough in the lunch room and don't make an effort to have a work buddy. I'm afraid I got kind of snappy when I asked how being chatty about inanities in the lunch room affected my work as a tech support person over the phone and instant chats. I don't think my supervisor likes me as much anymore.
smonster - Jan 26, 2011 8:36:19 am PST #13973 of 30000
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IOmeN: ! I didn't get the job because I don't have an outgoing enough personality! Not that I'm not competent but that I'm not bubbly enough! That is so bogus, I'm really angry!
Uggh. My recent roommate deals with this at work. The bubbly airhead who does jack gets better feedback than she, although she takes on lots of extra projects.
I would recommend looking for jobs that don't involve dealing with the public, but I suspect you are just applying to what's open since there's not much out there.