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Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Vortex - Jan 10, 2011 8:48:12 am PST #12743 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I'm tempted to call it stoup.

Don't make me cut you.


Steph L. - Jan 10, 2011 9:05:26 am PST #12744 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Erk. Sorry if I shouldn't be asking. I just like to have anecdotal evidence - largely because doctors won't tell me anything about these drugs.

No, you totally should. Anecdotal evidence in addition to research and talking to my docs helped me to pinpoint many things that did and didn't work for me.

This. Totally this.

I'm assuming that, when people ask me drug information, they know that (1) I am not a doctor, (2) I am not a pharmacist, and, most importantly, (3) I'm just giving them a map, so to speak, of the direction they should look, w/r/t side effects, drug interactions, etc.

And I further assume that anyone who asks me stuff knows that it's just a "map" and not gospel truth. I figure alla y'all are smart enough to know that, or else I wouldn't dispense drug info.

And I've been helped HUGELY by being able to ask people here what their experiences were on various anti-Ds. And when, for instance, someone said that they didn't gain weight with Zoloft but I ended up gaining 2 dress sizes, I didn't react by storming in here and demanding an explanation for why I was misled into taking such a drug.

No, it's just useful anecdotal experience, and the more I can hear, the bigger "map" I have to decide if that's the way I want to go.


meara - Jan 10, 2011 9:17:27 am PST #12745 of 30000

I totally agree--having known people who were on Topamax before I took it, and knowing it was called "Dopamax" made me wary--but didn't stop me from taking it. And made me feel better about having some but not all the side effects--I mean, reading the side effect profile tells me I could have practically ANYTHING. Knowing real people who say "Yes, I lost words"...


beekaytee - Jan 10, 2011 9:18:37 am PST #12746 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Oh my gosh. I don't know what I would do without the support and recommendations I get from Buffistas!

It's such a great place to begin, or enrich, a discernment process about pretty much anything. That is true precisely because I trust the intelligence and good intentions of everyone who responds to a query.

In fact, I've seen more "YMMVs" here than anywhere else, ever. That is terrifically reassuring.


sj - Jan 10, 2011 9:29:37 am PST #12747 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Oh my gosh. I don't know what I would do without the support and recommendations I get from Buffistas!

Very much this. My previous doctor always told me not to worry about new meds, and I read all the info that came with the drugs I would probably make myself a wreck. It's good to just get a general sense from people who have btdt.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jan 10, 2011 9:33:40 am PST #12748 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

That is true precisely because I trust the intelligence and good intentions of everyone who responds to a query.

This is a very good point. People here have good sense and are lovely. It's a wonderful combination.


P.M. Marc - Jan 10, 2011 9:33:49 am PST #12749 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Hells to the yeah. I'm glad it worked for tommy, but what a clusterfuck for my life.

Man, that stuff was NASTY for me. NASTY.

I cannot fully articulate the extent of its nasty.

Heh. Have any female takers had any luck with it? Because the few people I know who it worked for were all dudes.


Daisy Jane - Jan 10, 2011 9:54:00 am PST #12750 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

For people who don't venture into Natter- Wicked the miniseries. [link]


Shir - Jan 10, 2011 10:02:29 am PST #12751 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Somebody please tell that I didn't forget to turn off and unplug the blow heater when I left the office today, and that I only think about it because of that infomercial in the radio. Thank you.


Polter-Cow - Jan 10, 2011 10:07:01 am PST #12752 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

You're good, Shir.