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Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Jan 03, 2011 7:38:42 am PST #12273 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Interesting, Zenkitty. I guess it's more common than I knew.

I'd love wakeup calls again starting tomorrow, 6:30.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jan 03, 2011 7:42:17 am PST #12274 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

I mean, who anticipates that to be the deal-breaker?

It was The Girl's deal-breaker, at the beginning. She wouldn't date me until she was living in the same city as me. I think it's fairly common. But doesn't make it any easier, obviously. More brackets, smonster. Thinking of you.


smonster - Jan 03, 2011 7:57:40 am PST #12275 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yeah, he doesn't really have any interest in that kind of relationship, either. It makes him sound like some kind of player, but that's not the case.


Zenkitty - Jan 03, 2011 8:06:34 am PST #12276 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

smonster, tomorrow, 6:30am. It's on!


Glamcookie - Jan 03, 2011 8:21:23 am PST #12277 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

{{{smonster}}} I'm sorry, lady.

I am back at work after 2 weeks off and missing my baby like whoa.


erikaj - Jan 03, 2011 9:07:29 am PST #12278 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Well, I suppose it's better in one way to find out sooner rather than later, but that doesn't make it hurt less. Sorry, smonster.


beth b - Jan 03, 2011 9:15:35 am PST #12279 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm sorry smonster. I guess I'm not 100% sure what all this means. But people are complicated


meara - Jan 03, 2011 9:15:49 am PST #12280 of 30000

Yeah, he doesn't really have any interest in that kind of relationship, either. It makes him sound like some kind of player, but that's not the case.

Er, what?? I don't get it.

Things I also don't get: WTF I am supposed to do re: work if I can't fly for 3-4 weeks. Called up the doc first thing this morning, since I am still ear-plugged and feel like there's fluid up in there. And indeed, she said I have a bilateral ear infection. But wouldn't give me any prescriptions (since current studies show antibiotics don't really do anything...but no prescription decongestants, or ear drops, or anything??!) and finally gave me a referral to an ENT, all "Well, you could try to go next week if you don't feel better"--LADY I DON"T THINK YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I"M SAYING. IF I WAIT UNTIL NEXT WEEK TO PLAN WHEN I CAN FLY, I WILL BE OUT OF A JOB. (And when I called the ENT I was told they have to review the referral before I can make an appointment, anyway, and they wouldn't say how long that would take--a few days, maybe, but no promises, THEY"LL CALL ME. THANKS, I TRUST THAT SOOO MUCH. LET ME WAIT BY THE PHONE AS I CRY!)


amyth - Jan 03, 2011 9:27:28 am PST #12281 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

meara, that's super-frustrating, WTF?!?

How long does it take to review a referral? Are they sending it to a committee?


javachik - Jan 03, 2011 9:29:19 am PST #12282 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

meara, that first doc=WHACKALOON. Can you afford to see an ENT out of network so that you can get an appointment ASAP? Huge antibiotics AND vacuuming finally put an end to my months of misery last Spring. And yeah, I saw 3 internists before finally seeing the ENT. ENT was the only one who actually "got it".