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'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Dec 21, 2010 12:39:55 pm PST #11485 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hil, quick recovery~ma to you.

Well, one thing you could cross off is ribboning gifts. Gift wrapping (or, even easier, gift bagging) is enough!

I can cut back on the ribboning, but I can't really cut it out entirely. It's sort of expected of me since I worked at a gift shop years ago. Plus, I already spent money on the ribbon.

sj, I'm sorry you are feeling overwhelmed. It's one of the sucky parts of the holiday season - so much to do. My sister cut back on things like cards and presents to extended family. When she called to tell me not to expect it, she said "It's just not fun for me, and the Christmas is supposed to be fun." I told her I completely understood. But please to send pics of her family at some point in the year when it wasn't stressful, because I still want them.

Thanks, WS.


Steph L. - Dec 21, 2010 1:24:50 pm PST #11486 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I can cut back on the ribboning, but I can't really cut it out entirely. It's sort of expected of me since I worked at a gift shop years ago.

I don't understand this. I don't mean that in a snotty way; I just mean -- so what if you worked at a gift shop years ago? So what if you worked at a gift shop today? Because we're your friends, we're thinking about what you can do to save yourself stress, not what other people are expecting you to do out of the niceness of your unbelievably nice, generous heart. t edit Which is why I said "so what?" -- ribbons just don't seem as important as some of the other Christmas things you mentioned, no matter if you were Martha Stewart. Even *she* needs a break sometimes.

Pretty ribbons are nice, but (1) packages get opened pretty dang quickly; (2) I'd give the hairy eyeball to anyone who expected a specific *gift,* let alone a specific type of wrapping/decoration; and (3) [which should have been #1, since it's the most important] you're trying to eliminate some stress, and honestly, the ribbons seem to be one of the easiest things to put aside.

Plus, I already spent money on the ribbon.

It'll be there next year.


sj - Dec 21, 2010 1:51:13 pm PST #11487 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, logically you are completely right.


Steph L. - Dec 21, 2010 1:59:04 pm PST #11488 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Embrace the logic! I care about your sanity, dang it, not spiffy ribbons!

Well, spiffy ribbons ARE spiffy. But I still think people can live without them and Christmas will manage to go on.


Zenkitty - Dec 21, 2010 2:08:34 pm PST #11489 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, dear. Condolences, DJ, I'm so sorry.

Frank, glad your brother's surgery went well.

sj, carry some ribbon in your pocket. If anyone whines about where's their ribbon, wrap it around their head.

Steph, I hope you've learned your lesson: ignoring Buffistas who tell you to go to the doctor gives you pleurisy.

Hil, if they're growing in straight and not gonna crowd your other teeth, leave 'em. Otherwise, yank 'em. Mine were growing forward, as if *aimed* at my other teeth. Had to come out. But please, find another dentist besides Dr. Won't-Commit-to-an-Opinion.


sj - Dec 21, 2010 2:12:30 pm PST #11490 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, carry some ribbon in your pocket. If anyone whines about where's their ribbon, wrap it around their head.

Not their throat?

I care about your sanity

Oh, that disappeared a long time ago.


Zenkitty - Dec 21, 2010 2:15:51 pm PST #11491 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Not their throat?

I was trying to be nice!


Hil R. - Dec 21, 2010 2:17:22 pm PST #11492 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Hil, if they're growing in straight and not gonna crowd your other teeth, leave 'em. Otherwise, yank 'em. Mine were growing forward, as if *aimed* at my other teeth. Had to come out. But please, find another dentist besides Dr. Won't-Commit-to-an-Opinion.

Deciding factor was that it hurts. Thus, yanked today. Now, hurts a lot more, but that should stop soon.

Had to call three different Chinese restaurants before finding one that would put sesame noodle sauce on rice noodles.


sj - Dec 21, 2010 2:19:18 pm PST #11493 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Had to call three different Chinese restaurants before finding one that would put sesame noodle sauce on rice noodles.

What a pain. I'm glad you found one, and I hope you are able to eat.


Steph L. - Dec 21, 2010 2:20:53 pm PST #11494 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I care about your sanity

Oh, that disappeared a long time ago.

How about...I care about your holiday chillitude?