I`m sorry for your loss, askye.
That's my girl... That's my good girl.
Kaylee ,'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Liese S. - Dec 16, 2010 1:00:40 pm PST #11138 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Dana - Dec 16, 2010 1:01:51 pm PST #11139 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I'm sorry, askye.
Calli - Dec 16, 2010 1:12:00 pm PST #11140 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
I'm sorry, askye. Much peace to you and your family.
erin_obscure - Dec 16, 2010 1:35:11 pm PST #11141 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
{{[askye}}}
is there any way to convince a 14 yo girl to stay away from a senior boy who has a reputation several miles long known by every school teacher and administrator and most parents of upper class girls? my little sister is smitten. she has been repeatedly told to stay away from him. she's been forced to drop out of the drama class that they share and to drop out of the school musical in which she would have been sharing scenes with him. my father has (ill-advisedly) sent him vaguely worded threatening messages (not of physical violence, but to negatively affect his application to the naval academy.) yesterday a christmas gift from him arrived at the house, and the day before that a teacher separated the two of them canoodling on a sofa in the library at school. clearly parental intervention short of shipping her off to a boarding school is not working. What on earth can a (much older) half-sister on the other side of the country do to try and make her see sense? Reason stands no hope against these hormones. *sigh*
beth b - Dec 16, 2010 1:50:58 pm PST #11142 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
It sounds to me like they have created a romeo and Juliette situation. I wonder if it is too late to change the reaction? I don't imagine that it is easy, but maybe instead of enforced separation, limited supervised visitation?
from your end? can you suggest that true love has time -- and only really good behavior ( no canoodling on the library sofa) might convince your folks to change their mind?
Not really sure you can do much
lisah - Dec 16, 2010 2:08:11 pm PST #11143 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate
Yeah, keeping them apart like that is probably the worst thing they can do!
meara - Dec 16, 2010 2:08:50 pm PST #11144 of 30000
...how bad can his reputation (er, possibly other than in re: girls) be, if he's hoping/expecting to get into the Naval Academy? That said, a reminder that her parents can and will prosecute him for statutory might be in order.
Burrell - Dec 16, 2010 2:09:50 pm PST #11145 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Peace to you and your family, askye.
Cass - Dec 16, 2010 2:20:01 pm PST #11146 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
My sympathies, askye.
What on earth can a (much older) half-sister on the other side of the country do to try and make her see sense? Reason stands no hope against these hormones. *sigh*
How close are you two?
Strix - Dec 16, 2010 2:22:01 pm PST #11147 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
askye, I'm sorry about your grandma.
smonster, that's terrible.
erin-o, hrm. That's a hard one. I'd go with the reminding him that it might be statutory, sitting down with her and filling her in on all the shitty stuff he's done to other girls (and possibly making her draw the sex exponents with his known partners -- you know, you're fucking everyone he's fucked, and all the people THEY'Ve fucked, and so on...) and showing her very detailed pix of veneral diseases.
Barring that, just keeping chill. Forbidden fruit is very tasty, especially for teenagers, but the more you are just matter-of-fact and make him less like delicious buttery goodness and more like congealed fat wrung from from a bovine boob, the better .