Who died and made you Elvis?

Cordelia ,'Storyteller'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Dec 07, 2010 3:35:49 pm PST #10453 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{quester}}} I'm sorry. I hate being in that situation.


Aims - Dec 07, 2010 3:39:23 pm PST #10454 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Oh quester, I am sorry that happened. That totally sucks. BOO FACSIMILE MACHINE FUCK UP!


smonster - Dec 07, 2010 3:41:17 pm PST #10455 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

You're going to rock, Barb.

quester, that bites. Hope it all works out okay.

Much ~ma, Aims.

Trying to do another round of evals on the Fresh Makers. It's depressing. I'm so frustrated right now with them and my org and our partners. ::sigh::


Barb - Dec 07, 2010 3:52:32 pm PST #10456 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

quester, that bites the big one. So sorry that someone else's ineptitude is causing you grief.

Thanks for the good thoughts, y'all. I'm still not completely convinced of my non-Oompa Loompaness, but I'll go with what I've got.

At least I'm wearing seriously awesome shoes.


smonster - Dec 07, 2010 4:00:30 pm PST #10457 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Man, I just tried to put on holiday music, and my whole body revolted. Listening to Explosions in the Sky instead. Don't suppose anyone is around who's worked with at-risk youth is available for a pep talk via phone in the next hour?

eta just did 5 minutes of mindfulness of emotions. That helped. Going to walk the dog now.


Aims - Dec 07, 2010 4:11:29 pm PST #10458 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

You could not resemble an Ooompa Loompa if you pained yourself orange and wore white overalls.


Liese S. - Dec 07, 2010 4:19:18 pm PST #10459 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Barb, you are totally going to rock this, and it is for your awesome book. Which you wrote! And it got published! And now it's out there, and you want people to love it as much as you do! Because it's awesome! And so are you!


smonster - Dec 07, 2010 4:23:38 pm PST #10460 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Talked to B for a few. Realized that I need to let go, again, of trying to control them. Communicate expectations, enforce consequences, and let go.


Liese S. - Dec 07, 2010 4:24:06 pm PST #10461 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Good call, smonster.


Stephanie - Dec 07, 2010 4:28:05 pm PST #10462 of 30000
Trust my rage

Realized that I need to let go, again, of trying to control them.

This is a lesson I need to learn over and over.

And in related news, in what reality are assault and DUIs not included in "do you have any other criminal convictions"??!!? Seriously, people, I can't help if I'm finding this stuff out as the judge is finding out.