That's the thrill of living in the Hellmouth! There's a veritable cornucopia of fiends and devils and ghouls to engage ... Pardon me for finding the glass half-full.

Giles ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Dec 07, 2010 4:11:29 pm PST #10458 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

You could not resemble an Ooompa Loompa if you pained yourself orange and wore white overalls.


Liese S. - Dec 07, 2010 4:19:18 pm PST #10459 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Barb, you are totally going to rock this, and it is for your awesome book. Which you wrote! And it got published! And now it's out there, and you want people to love it as much as you do! Because it's awesome! And so are you!


smonster - Dec 07, 2010 4:23:38 pm PST #10460 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Talked to B for a few. Realized that I need to let go, again, of trying to control them. Communicate expectations, enforce consequences, and let go.


Liese S. - Dec 07, 2010 4:24:06 pm PST #10461 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Good call, smonster.


Stephanie - Dec 07, 2010 4:28:05 pm PST #10462 of 30000
Trust my rage

Realized that I need to let go, again, of trying to control them.

This is a lesson I need to learn over and over.

And in related news, in what reality are assault and DUIs not included in "do you have any other criminal convictions"??!!? Seriously, people, I can't help if I'm finding this stuff out as the judge is finding out.


Cashmere - Dec 07, 2010 4:40:07 pm PST #10463 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Rule #1: DO NOT LIE TO YOUR LAWYER!!!


amyth - Dec 07, 2010 4:51:43 pm PST #10464 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Stephanie, oy.

{{smonster}} good luck.

Aims, much ~ma to you. I've been where you are.

Barb, you are going to do great! I know it.

I am v. sad about Elizabeth Edwards, even though I saw it coming. She was a class act.

{{quester}} That is so stressful.

{{Teppy}}

Count me among the Love, Actually haters.

I took a shower today for the first time since the surgery. Woo! It was actually a huge PITA. It's not easy to shower, dry off, and get dressed without putting weight on one leg.


smonster - Dec 07, 2010 4:53:39 pm PST #10465 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Definitely, Stephanie. This isn't the first time I've had to learn it, or the second, or the fifth. You always think that if you just said/did the exact right thing, they would get it/change. But that shit is for feelgood movies.


sarameg - Dec 07, 2010 4:54:12 pm PST #10466 of 30000

amyth, do you have a shower stool? That might help.


Zenkitty - Dec 07, 2010 4:54:57 pm PST #10467 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

quester, that sucks! Good luck getting it all sorted.

Barb, you will both look and be awesome!

Job ~ma, Aims. May they be reasonable.

Hang in there, smonster. It's a good thing you're doing, in spite of all the frustration.