Giles: Helping out with the dishes makes me feel useful. Dawn: Wanna clean out the garage with us Saturday? You could feel indispensable.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - May 05, 2010 5:53:35 am PDT #27404 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

Another perfectly reasonable scenario.


Aims - May 05, 2010 5:55:42 am PDT #27405 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

And IIRC, there's a much higher income threshold on WIC requirements because it stops when the youngest child turns 5 and only covers certain food items.

That being said, it sometimes pings me, too Gud.


Theodosia - May 05, 2010 5:57:51 am PDT #27406 of 30001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Gudanov -- or a borrowed Volvo, given how hard it is to make a large grocery run if you don't have your own car. But still, it's not what you expect to see.

(Which reminds me of the time I asked the driver of an airport stretch limo to stop at an all-night Target on the way to the Breakers hotel in Palm Beach. The airline had misplaced my luggage, so I bought pajamas & et cetera. Since it was all on the company's dime, he didn't mind.)


Sophia Brooks - May 05, 2010 6:01:25 am PDT #27407 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Should the people have to worry about how it looks when they go grocery shopping? Or just how it is? Because it could have been a brother taking his sister grocery shopping or any one of a hundred things, and I am not sure someone should have to think through how it "looks bad" before they accept a ride.

Also, I think almost no one would be on WIC to "beat" the system, because WIC is an enormous PAIN IN THE ASS that nets you milk, formula, cereal, cheese, juice, beans, peanut butter, eggs and fruit. With enormous restrictions on the size and type you can buy.


Gudanov - May 05, 2010 6:04:17 am PDT #27408 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

Should the people have to worry about how it looks when they go grocery shopping?

I meant it more as a commentary on me than on them. The power of the anecdote is strong even though there are, like you said, a hundred reasonable scenarios. If I was a righty instead of a lefty, I wonder if I would search for the reasonable or just take it as confirmation that government is wasting money on people who abuse the system.


Aims - May 05, 2010 6:05:39 am PDT #27409 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Sophia - nah, they shouldn't have to worry about it. It's one of those irrational pings. For me, anyway. But then, working with DHS so much in previous jobs and helping people to get qualified for benefits, I've seen some people try to pull some major shit to get any benefit they feel they deserve. I'm all for a hand up and help when people need it, but I hate it when people abuse the system. So when I see someone pay for their food with government benefits and then get into a car newer than mine when I don't qualify for anything on my paltry salary or Joe's unemployment, I get pinged. Like I say, it's not rational or right, it's just a feeling.


sarameg - May 05, 2010 6:05:44 am PDT #27410 of 30001

Or it could be the car is the one damned thing they have paid off, and they have no ready income right now. There was an article in the Washington Post a while back profiling families in just such circumstances. I think one was very close to being homeless.


lisah - May 05, 2010 6:09:37 am PDT #27411 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Yeah, you just never know what someone's circumstances are. I was trying to explain that to a co-worker the other day who was complaining about unemployment benefits being extended. He thought the time you get unemployment should be shortened and that you should have savings to support you if you lost your job. And that if you hadn't found a job in a year (or whatever) you just weren't trying. @@


tommyrot - May 05, 2010 6:10:48 am PDT #27412 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

ION, today's xkcd is funny: Cemetery


Aims - May 05, 2010 6:10:53 am PDT #27413 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

@@ indeed. The uncertainty of Joe's unemployment continuing is why when we moved, I made damn sure we could pay everything with my paycheck alone. God knows what we'd do if I God forbid lost my job.