I ran into a guy from HS when I was dressed up crazy last week. Thanks to fb, I didn't really even have to explain my outfit. It's funny, you don't know who reads your updates if they never comment. I did not go to my tenth, we didn't have a fifteenth, not sure if I'll go to my twentieth. If there is one.

I went to my ten year reunion. But that was a little before Facebook was all that. And my high school was huge. So I didn't know Jared the Subway guy went to my high school before I went to reunion!!

My 25th is this summer. July 24th to be specific. I haven't decided one way or another. If I go, it will mainly be as an excuse to visit the Bay Area. Kelly would be in CO with CJ - so I'd be able to go and be Suzi and not "mom". I think I'm starting to talk myself into it.

I missed my 25th because it was outside of Boston the weekend before Thanksgiving. Which, you know, NO. I did get reports from the one friend from my high school class I'm still in touch with.

Which means my 30th is in 2 years. Crap. I'm old.

Nora, many congratulations to Tom, and good luck with the negotiations!

Skipping (is that the word I type most? Sigh) because, according to the Buffista Calendar, today is NoiseDesign's birthday.

Happy birthday, ND! With lots of wishes for a great day and a wonderful year!

Also, with shabbat and all I don't know how much computer time I'll have tomorrow, so I'll post already that Saturday, the 17th, will be Sheryl's birthday, and send her lots of early wishes, as well.

Short more-fun-than-expected Fridays to all, and more-fun-even-than-expected weekends!

Nice video, Juliebird! You have a lovely workplace.

What if they say No to a counter offer? Would he take the job anyway?

I don't know, it might also depend on the attitude behind the negotiations as well as the outcome. We could certainly walk away, no one's quit their current jobs yet (as much as we might want to) and there are some local opportunities on the horizon.

Nora, don't be surprised if they can't flex too much on PTO.

At the large multi-city and -industry company Tom currently works at, he was able to negotiate for an extra week of vacation successfully, so while I understand the slipperiness of the back end of these things as you describe, it is still possible, I hope.

But if it doesn't work out, and he's respectful in asking and they're respectful about answering, then it doesn't hurt to ask. I imagine coming back with the lower salary they are expecting some attempts at negotiation at least.

Thanks, everyone, for your feedback, congratulations, and suggestions. This is such a new big deal for us (we don't make giant leaps/moves like this into the unknown!!) that having a place to talk about this stuff and get wisdom on the very diverse background of y'all is INFINITELY valuable. I can't overstate that.

Also: Happy Birthday Noise Design!

Happy birthday ND!

When I was in the UK I was teased about American's eating ketchup on everything, oh hah hah hah. Then I tasted their ketchup (which I had to pay 5p a pack for. the fuck?) and understood why I was being mocked - their ketchup tasted like crap. No WONDER they thought we were nuts, they don't know from ketchup.

I'm just surprised you guys aren't eating your fries with peanut butter.

There's a hilarious potty-training conversation going on now on the Manic Mommies forums, started by a woman who, on the recommendation of their ped, was using a "poop in the potty x times in a row and you can earn a [big prize]" method to get her son to stop asking for a pull-up every time he had to go. Unfortunately her son now refuses to go in the potty unless he thinks he's going to get paid for it. The money quote was "I'm going to poop for that Lego truck." D'oh!

(After a few days of commisseratory bitching and venting, the consensus was just stop giving him pull-ups and let him deal with the consequences. Since at this point it's pretty clearly stubbornness and not physical unreadiness.)

Happy birthday, ND!

Great interview, Juliebird!

My morning is not off to a good start. First I left my cast iron skillet on the stove all night. For once I am glad to have an electric stove! Then I cut my finger while cutting a suspicious area off some cheese. Because I am stupid. And it's rainy.

But OK! From here on out, my day will be better!