Who died and made you Elvis?

Cordelia ,'Storyteller'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jan 14, 2010 4:26:32 am PST #1422 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Also, why does my grandmother keep calling me? I swear, she calls more now that we see each other every week. I don't actually have that much to say to her! And also, I'm supposably working, so I just didn't answer. At least she left a message, which she often doesn't.


Kat - Jan 14, 2010 4:27:08 am PST #1423 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

OH no! Poor poor Homer!

I too am up earlier than I'd like. I should go make lunch for myself yet I feel relatively uninspired to do so.


Kat - Jan 14, 2010 4:28:39 am PST #1424 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I swear, she calls more now that we see each other every week. I don't actually have that much to say to her!

My friend Judy talks to her dad Every. Single. Day. on the phone. Which is amazing and all of that contact, I think, is a result of the fact that Judy's husband died last year and her Dad is in his 90s. I thought, maybe I SHOULD call my mom every day. But what would I say?


Jesse - Jan 14, 2010 4:30:09 am PST #1425 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, I think that amount of contact is odd. I know it's not uncommon, but it's just not my way. With my parents, I've generally stuck with the rules we set when I left for college -- talk on the phone Sunday at 7pm, and that's it.


Lee - Jan 14, 2010 4:30:45 am PST #1426 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Up too early, waahh. Have been killing time, don't appreciate it.

Me too. Woke up at 4:00. Hate that.


erikaj - Jan 14, 2010 4:30:50 am PST #1427 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

Sad about Teddy Pendergrass. My mom is a huge fan.


Kat - Jan 14, 2010 4:32:30 am PST #1428 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

My parents and I don't have rules about it. But I called my mom the day before her birthday to let her know we got a box she had sent. I told her that I'd call back the next day, on her birthday and she said, "Don't bother just tell me happy birthday today." But then I pointed out that Noah wanted to sing for her on Skype and she wanted that. She likes talking to Noah more than me.


sarameg - Jan 14, 2010 4:33:48 am PST #1429 of 30001

Sunday night is my usual talk to the parents deal. Carried over from when Sunday night was call the grandparents. But I'll call them if something else is up. Buying the house, well, for that I ended up talking pretty much daily.

Got here so damned early,and the thing is? I have a 4 pm meeting that WILL run long, so it's gonna be a long day. And that was after lying on the bed, giving the cats attention until even they got bored procrastinating.


Sparky1 - Jan 14, 2010 4:47:00 am PST #1430 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

I talk to my parents every weekend, email during the week. My DH used to talk to his mother every day, and it used to drive me nuts because they didn't have enough new to talk about. After you'd told her some story about your day she'd say, "What else?" when there was nothing else.

Baby woke up at 4:44 a.m. today, didn't go back down, I have 4 classes to teach (2 mine and 2 for someone whose mother passed away suddenly) and I'll be here until almost 9 p.m. doing that.


§ ita § - Jan 14, 2010 4:55:30 am PST #1431 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I kinda speak to my parents every week, email ad hoc. Speak to my sister more rarely, email and text more often.

Where has my morning appetite gone? I'm not hungry enough for breakfast at home most mornings, and that means buying a muffin at the last minute.