Gavin, ask yourself this question. What are you more afraid of, a giant murderous demon or me?

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Goodbye and Good Riddance 2009: So long and thanks for all the fish.  

Every year we watch the Charlie Brown special, do the Snoopy dance, wish everybody a Merry Christmukkah, and thank our Secret Santas in the good riddance thread. Which is this one, in case you were wondering. Oh, and 2009? Don't think we've forgotten about you


Steph L. - Dec 31, 2009 8:57:14 am PST #284 of 549
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

2009 has been fairly good for me. The one big blow was when, in late October, my boss had to ask us to take a 20% pay cut (and hour cut), because the company is struggling pretty badly.

In an excellently timed move, I paid off my last credit card at the beginning of October, and I was finally debt-free for the first time in my adult life (basically 20 years, egad). So that's made the salary cut much easier to cope with.

We took a lazy vacation in August to visit my bro in Vermont, which was excellent. I had a mini-reunion with my college roommates in Cleveland in May, which was great. My 20-year high school reunion was this year, which was surreal.

My mom got fired in June, but got a new job in November, so all is well there. My dad's health is holding steady, though he has some pain issues with diabetic neuropathy, so I hope he can get those straightened out in 2010.

Finally, I am utterly, disgustingly happy with The Boy. The beginning of December marked our 2-year shack-up-iversary. I would dearly love to remodel the house (or move, but that isn't financially feasible), but the man I share it with makes me happy in a way I didn't think I would ever experience. Coming home to him is my favorite part of the day. He is my utter, utter joy.


Beverly - Dec 31, 2009 8:59:13 am PST #285 of 549
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Kate, I think I've neglected to actually type my congratulations, though I've been beaming and thinking it. So, best wishes and congratulations to both of you! Proposal Toast is a wonderful thing--carrot cake is wedding cake at our house ("Come on, honey bunny. I'll make you a Carrot cake.").

Drew and Kristin, it's been wonderful reading about your wedding preparations. I haven't chimed in, but I've been reading and nodding and smiling and wishing you both so much happiness. I'd love to see the fabulous invitation--is it up on the wedding website, and can somebody link me?


DavidS - Dec 31, 2009 9:03:02 am PST #286 of 549
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Awww, I'm so happy for you Bev.


Beverly - Dec 31, 2009 9:08:43 am PST #287 of 549
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Thank you, David. Other plus? We're this much closer to actually visiting west coast Buffistas!


SailAweigh - Dec 31, 2009 9:17:16 am PST #288 of 549
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

The month of December sucked donkey balls for me, so it's been hard to maintain a positive headspace when thinking about 2009. However, I think I can do it!

2009 has been the realm of continuing disappointment in the job market. I get interveiws, but no offers. I've broadened my search pattern, considerably, both geographically and market section. Fortunately, my extended unemployment benefits still have two whole months left to go. Yay?

I've made progress at making my condo a comfortable place for me to live. No major renovations, but getting it back from the trash dump it had become to a place I'm proud to bring people has been a major and ongoing effort that makes me feel good about myself.

I started writing fic in the Star Trek community and having a creative outlet has really kept me in a positive headspace, let me tell you. Nothing like those author strokes to make a person want to bust their buttons. Gaining mastery in an arena I've long been interested in and afraid of broaching for fear of failure has really done wonders for my ego. I can say that 2009 is going out on a personal high note, if not professional.

I plan on going out, tonight, and sending 2009 off in style. May 2010 prove to be as good a, if not a better, year than 2009, for everyone!


Jessica - Dec 31, 2009 9:18:28 am PST #289 of 549
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Congratulations, Kate! What wonderful news!!

2009 - for jobwise, see S3 Mad Men. Thankfully I was able to finagle a position within my current company so I'll still have my benefits and health insurance when Scrapadoodle Oingy-Boingy Bracchiosaurus Ding Dong is born. I hope to not have to dodge any more bullets in 2010.

Unfortunately, DH was not so lucky. The magazine he'd been with for the past 2 years finally folded so he's job hunting again at the worst possible time to be job hunting in the publishing industry. Fingers are crossed tight.

And in the midst of all of this, we found out in September that we are expecting our second child in May 2010. We switched Dylan to a new daycare this year where he is thriving, and just this past month moved him out of the crib and into his very own twin bed. Thank god we're having another one soon - I'm not sure I could handle all this growing up otherwise!


Sheryl - Dec 31, 2009 10:21:30 am PST #290 of 549
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

For the most part 2009 has been pretty good. G and I are both healthy and fully employed in good jobs. (Also, still cute together) Our families are doing well.

On the other hand, too many of my friends are having health and/or job troubles, and people continue to die far too early.


Calli - Dec 31, 2009 11:02:08 am PST #291 of 549
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congratulations on the upcoming kiddo, Jessica!

I came home early from work today to find a wonderful surprise from DebetEsse. Within a box was another box that has traveled from Victor to JZ to Debet to me. It's covered in lovely wine-colored velvet, and only my respect for board etiquette will pry it from my hands at the next gift exchange. But I get to keep most of the goodies within it, such as a gorgeous pair of hand-knitted hand warmers in a deep, peacock blue. They're incredibly soft and have a lovely crisscross pattern on the back of the hand. The box also contained a pair of moonstone stud earrings which will match my moonstone and labradorite stacking rings perfectly. In fact, I've been toying with getting a pair just like these from Etsy, but I held off due to buying other people things this month. I'll be wearing them at my NYE party tonight. And Debet's cat Maggie sent my Leifur a bouncy mouse toy, which has been snatched up and dragged to Leifur's lair behind the recliner. Thank you, Secret Santa!

Edit? What edit?


Jessica - Dec 31, 2009 11:02:45 am PST #292 of 549
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Congratulations on the upcoming kiddo, Jesse!

Ahahaha. I can't wait until Jesse pokes her head in and catches THAT typo!


Jesse - Dec 31, 2009 11:11:34 am PST #293 of 549
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I was a little o.O, I'm not gonna lie.