And we live to fight another day.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Goodbye and Good Riddance 2009: So long and thanks for all the fish.  

Every year we watch the Charlie Brown special, do the Snoopy dance, wish everybody a Merry Christmukkah, and thank our Secret Santas in the good riddance thread. Which is this one, in case you were wondering. Oh, and 2009? Don't think we've forgotten about you


askye - Dec 21, 2009 5:44:32 pm PST #155 of 549
Thrive to spite them

So 2009 has been a year of changes.

It marked the 1 year anniversary of my current job. I'm doing good, we had some layoffs (which was bad), I got more responsibilities, (which I'm struggling with, but so is everyone else) but overall I get great feedback and I like my job.

I had to put my sweet kitty Anna to sleep, she was 20 1/2 years old and her little body was just shutting down. I had her my whole life and it was very very sad. I still miss her. But I've added Dean the Rouge and Maddie to my life, brother and sister kitties that are very sweet.

Also moved out of my apartment and back in with my mom. Not because I had to, but because she wants to move to be closer to my brother, SIL, and Cutest Nephew Ever! at some point this spring and I'll be renting her place when she does. Plus since I've moved in she's been up there most of the time.

In my love life SLNRLBF aka Will and I are doing great! He came down on Memorial Weekend and then we spent a week together at the beginning of November and it was AWESOME! I'm going up to Vermont to visit next fall (I think) and we're trying to figure out when I can move up there. We'll see when that happens.

And I'm very close to paying off my credit card so that's exciting.

Oh and I'm dealing with some illness that I don't know what it is, 2 CT Scans and 2 ultrasounds later I'm scheduled for a cystoscopy in Jan. I'm hoping that will shed some light on what is going on.


askye - Dec 21, 2009 5:44:33 pm PST #156 of 549
Thrive to spite them

javachik - Dec 21, 2009 6:00:00 pm PST #157 of 549
Our wings are not tired.

Got it, Sail. Does seem to be too much of a coincidence to have it not be the case. I've been the victim (10 years ago) of a serious stalker/identity thief who simply knew enough about me to guess my hotmail password. He did the same sort of thing, once he hacked my account, but the damage wasn't just financial. Anyway, thank god it was 10 years ago and dealt with and over (he's dead).


SailAweigh - Dec 21, 2009 6:04:57 pm PST #158 of 549
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

I think that would be even scarier, javachik. Knowing it was someone close to you. I'm glad it's over and done for you.


javachik - Dec 21, 2009 6:52:17 pm PST #159 of 549
Our wings are not tired.

It was. Some day, now that it's so long ago I can be fairly objective, I'll write about it. Actually, to be thread-related, 2009 being a pretty good year was very therapeutic. It felt very satisfying to mark the 10 year anniversary of the worst year of my life.


Fay - Dec 21, 2009 8:35:46 pm PST #160 of 549
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

I've bought my Slacker Santa gifts, but haven't yet posted them - so, clearly not going to be there by Christmas or New Year, but should insh'allah arrive in January.

crosses fingers. tells self not to procrastinate like a procrastinaty thing, as is her wont.

I should do it today, shouldn't I? Right. Right, I'll do it today, and now I've said so here that means I HAVE to do it, so I can come back and report it done. Must drag self out of apartment. Ahem.

Meanwhile, I blame askye for the fact that this past week I seem to have just sort of stumbled into Second Life, pretty much on a demonic whim of curiosity out of in nowhere (...er, unless I can blame The Guild. Which, actually, is closer to the truth, iirc my chain of thought) and, OMG, I can see how this could be a real time-eater. Real time open mic poetry readings, and steampunk worlds, and karaoke clubs, and I seem to have (1) acquired an EFL job teaching people in China via SL, and (2) auditioned for & got the role of Magenta in a forthcoming "live" SL production of The Rocky Horror Show. Um. So - yeah, I can totally understand how askye came to be sucked in! And I'm delighted it's had such a lovely RL consequence for her and for SLNRLBF.

Right. Backing away from the internet now. (I'll do a proper rundown of 2009 later, I swear - just wanted to say I've got the pressie, and try to guilt myself into getting on with the all-important posting bit now.)


brenda m - Dec 22, 2009 3:35:52 am PST #161 of 549
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I think I've given up on the missing piece for my secret santa so I'm hoping to wrap and ship today. Might have to push til tomorrow depending on what today brings.

But I got a lovely package of packages yesterday! I'm trying to hold out on opening until the day, but that's also going to depend on how today goes. Wheee!


Tom Scola - Dec 22, 2009 3:42:17 am PST #162 of 549
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Even though I wasn't originally a slacker, I've fallen way behind on my Secret Santa responsibilities. I hope to have a package of awesome in the mail by early next week.


Aims - Dec 22, 2009 6:51:11 am PST #163 of 549
Shit's all sorts of different now.

You're mailing yourself??? How many stamps does it take to mail a Scola??


DCJensen - Dec 22, 2009 7:10:17 am PST #164 of 549
All is well that ends in pizza.

Depends, are they self-stick or do they have to be licked?