Happy Birthday PixK and Maria!!

It depends on how many checks you have in the Pro column. If it is all crazy making, then cancel.

None really. She made the first move. There was nothing in her profile that was red flags. So I thought, why not. The more I talk, the more I think, "oh dear dog, she's an idiot". She is a few years older than me, I think 42. She lives next door to her parents. In her grandma's house (I think g'ma is gone). Pays no rent. Mom still cooks for her, and does her laundry. Her son lives with her parents next door. She dropped out of college because it was "too much work", and is bummed that she doesn't have a better paying job. About the only thing good about her is: she likes classic rock music. She left her ex (the few stories she told of him is spooky). It's not like she's a hottie either. So. Ya. gonna cancel. I gotta fix some speakers at work anyhow. So. Perfect excuse.

O_a, run. People can change, but don't count on it; she can get back to you when she does.

Ya, as a person perpetually a third wheel. One thing I learned is, ya can't change folk. And, she doesn't seem worth trying to change.

I'll also share with you my two new mantras for dating:

1) Trust your gut

2) Don't settle

Smonster is wise!

I have reframed my OK Cupid expectations to "meet interesting people I don't want to have sex with."

:: sigh :: ... but... but... I want sex. Miss it. And Match.com had 0 matches for me. :: sigh ::

P-C, at least she didn't call to hound ya. Although the caps were fun. Good for you in standing up.

Smonster, I gotta catch up on FB. Will vote!

ION- v-day work festivities. Ya. I'm dashing around trying to get a show loaded in, and I head to level 8 (admin offices) where the printer is, to get a print out, and someone asked "BC where is your box?" "I don't have one" "why not?" "I'm trying to load in a show". Didn't hear the response, as I was dashing for the elevator. Boss gave me a hard time about it. "Ya had 2 weeks to go to Target and spend $2 on stupid cards". "what makes you think I wanted to go shopping?" Ya, I might be a bit blah about v-day, it being a big glaring reminder that I got nobody to snuggle with.

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Yeah, I've got no plans for Valentine's Day, either.

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my actual v-day will be at work. Woot. loading out super big show. saying good bye to the beautiful Meyer Line Array. wishing we could leave it in place. Alas, the theater doesn't have th $100,000 to do that.

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We're currently over at Wallybee's cousin's place. They have a little girl, a couple of months younger than Ryan. I'm not 100% sure, but they appear to be trying to race my baby.

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Go Ryan GO!

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This is some info that the doctor said that is good advice for anyone who has a UTI.

I was told that when have a UTI or think I have one I need to avoid spicy foods as well as acidic foods. Not because they cause UTIs but they make the symptoms worse, which makes sense.

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I want to go skating. I think my ankle might be OK enough for it. Maybe. Just really want to be on the ice.

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Much ~ma for the surgery, and finding the best antibiotic for you, askye. And? Lots of punctuation.

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Friends of mine are having a 'comfort food ' Potluck on valentines day. While most of us our married we are mostly 'old married couples' but there will be singles, some kids , and some grandkids. In other words, love in many facets will be celebrated.

Goodn luck, askye.

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Valentine's Day is annoying. In my 32 (dear lord, wait, am I 32? 31? Shit, I don't even know how OLD I am? Fuck, I AM 32! When did I turn 32? SHIT, I got old and didn't realize it? That means I'll be 33 this year?? CRAP) Um. Digression. Point being, I've only ever been dating someone twice on V-Day. And both times were really a bust. Useless. And the rest of the times were ass.

Askye, yay for getting shit done, but sorry it sounds like it all has to be so darn COMPLICATED.

I went contra dancing tonight! And now my ankle really hurts. Or more the muscles right above my ankle in my lower leg. Ouch.

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