Did Amy Tuteur post something new, Askye? She always seems to attract the most venom.
I'm babysitting for a three month-old who is asleep on the futon next to me. Too adorable for words.
'Serenity'
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Did Amy Tuteur post something new, Askye? She always seems to attract the most venom.
I'm babysitting for a three month-old who is asleep on the futon next to me. Too adorable for words.
Some women expect a lot of stroking, I think. I've also gotten that a lot. Probably without the stepmonster I might have grown up Complinsult free...I guess she did me a favor, but in a sick way. Still ain't right when your dad marries a Mean Girl.
When I hate it the most is when I don't *even like* the other person, yet I don't want her/him to think I'm a jerk. Who cares? They're a jerk. Right?
erika is me.
All I can seem to come up with is, "Uh, sorry. I guess I'm standoffish at first."
If you can't be beloved by an asshole, what's the point, right?ETA: DJ, yeah, actually, I'm a private person. Not at all the kind of woman to start chats in the bathroom stall or things like that...some women seem to hate this and call it bitchy but it really is hard for me to let people in my life.
It's the Reflexive Doubt thread, I post on there as lillym and I made a couple posts (most ignored by the commenters) but there's the one person who doubts all authority because it's authority, thinks doctors can't help anyone, and said that antidepressants are "chemical lobotomies".
All I can seem to come up with is, "Uh, sorry. I guess I'm standoffish at first."
"Actually, I'm awesome. But just with cool people. Not the whiny neurotic ones."
Would that help?
Hec, make a shirt of this and I'll buy it.
It's the Reflexive Doubt thread, I post on there as lillym and I made a couple posts (most ignored by the commenters) but there's the one person who doubts all authority because it's authority, thinks doctors can't help anyone, and said that antidepressants are "chemical lobotomies".
When I was going through the break-up of my first marriage, my therapist recommended ADs. I resisted the idea pretty much until I was back in Australia, and part of it was the fear that it'd dull my brain more generally. (Of course, it did nothing of the sort. I've re ently been rereading Bitches from that period, starting dating again and meeting Wallybee and all, and if anything I think it made me slightly manic.)
Heh. Probably not. It's not even that they aren't cool, it's just...I don't know, maybe I'm talking to other people at the time? I still become friends with them, but the inital "Why do you hate me?" and the sheer amount of "No really, I like you just fine!" I have to do, I find baffling.