Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Jan 25, 2010 10:07:56 am PST #7789 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Shrinks must hate people who have an awareness of how psychology is supposed to work.

I don't think so--because if you really know about psychology, why be hostile? You are there by choice. It's because you want to work on something so the sooner you get cracking and the more tools you have, the better. A good therapist is your partner, not your boss or your manipulator. The stuff you already know about psychology is going to be a help to them in communication.

I think of you were there by court order or something, then you might be plenty hostile.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 25, 2010 10:08:27 am PST #7790 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

A good therapist is your partner, not your boss or your manipulator. The stuff you already know about psychology is going to be a help to them in communication.

Yep.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jan 25, 2010 10:16:25 am PST #7791 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Me? Make a Joke To Cut The Tension Girl? With the diagnosis?

This. (It's amazing how much the jokes about bipolar can make people squirm.)

But some psychologists/therapists are very good. Examples: my mother is a genius at treating anxiety disorders, and her patients buy her thank-you presents. I saw a cognitive behavioural therapist a couple of years ago who had a big hand in making my life bearable again (it had stopped being so), and she had no problem with the fact that I possibly knew more CBT than she did - we worked together and it was great.

Having seen a fair few, though, I am also familiar with the less good ones.

I'm just being misunderstood so many times a day.

Ah, being part of the world of People Whose Brains Work Differently. Most of the time it's fantastic, but it can be exhausting as hell, too.


Shir - Jan 25, 2010 10:22:23 am PST #7792 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

being part of the world of People Whose Brains Work Differently

I never got diagnosed or anything, but I know I'm hardly the poster girl for "normal", whatever that might be.

One day, when I'll trust another human to hack my mind, I'll do it just for the gigs. Right now, it's more on a survival-of-my-essence-please-walk-away-slowly thing than "hey, there's my mind and here's me exposed. What do you see there?".


Trudy Booth - Jan 25, 2010 10:47:50 am PST #7793 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Not sure what the commotion was about, but lots of half-laughing euw sounds, then one of them says, "OK, I don't want to go to Hell anymore."

Clarification would probably be disturbing.

Maybe they thought it might be fun in that Run With A Wild Crowd way... but then someone showed them the Pat Robertson clip.


-t - Jan 25, 2010 11:41:26 am PST #7794 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I feel pretty hostile towards my therapist, and I'm there by choice. More or less. Just out of sheer my problems are mine, how dare anyone try to take them away, I think.

Then again, I definitely do not know how psychology is supposed to work, so.


Barb - Jan 25, 2010 12:33:27 pm PST #7795 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

I just made an absolutely rockin' tri-color pasta salad for my writers group meeting tonight. Used a garlic parmesan vinaigrette, grilled chicken, diced tomato, red onion, & sugar snap peas.


erin_obscure - Jan 25, 2010 12:35:26 pm PST #7796 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

I am meeting SA for dinner tonight. Monday looking much better!


Hil R. - Jan 25, 2010 12:52:11 pm PST #7797 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Trying to work on my dissertation. Kind of at a point where I can't write anything more until my advisor answers some questions. Advisor, once again, seems to have disappeared from the face of the earth.


Laura - Jan 25, 2010 1:19:58 pm PST #7798 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I am meeting SA for dinner tonight. Monday looking much better!

Remember to pass along my hugs!