Yes, there is. There's a hurry, Xander. I'm dying...I may have as few as fifty years left.

Anya ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Jan 25, 2010 9:41:24 am PST #7779 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

You wanna hug it out? {{{Bitches Hug It Out}}} I would have done it sooner, but I wouldn't y'all getting excited. Another thing we've joked about that combines our sick sense of humor and mom's green thumb, when I look at her and just say "hydroponics". We could totally be "Weeds" in real life. But Mom wants to stay a citizen. Dag. I think we are both tough enough to be pot dealers AND put customer relations back in the growth and purchase of cannabis...Mom would totally talk to the pot plants and put "Have a Nice Day" notes in the plastic bags. But, no, I don't even know where that anxiety comes from.


Stephanie - Jan 25, 2010 9:41:58 am PST #7780 of 30000
Trust my rage

Well, the correct answer is yes.

Thanks...I sometimes second guess my hesitancy to jump into conflict as some sort of girly weakness/inability to play with the big boys. But in this case, I know I'm right, cited my response, and I think the right next step is to just let it go.


Shir - Jan 25, 2010 9:46:06 am PST #7781 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

But, no, I don't even know where that anxiety comes from.

Damn psychologists.

(With apologize to everyone here who is one and/or find using one effective. It's us, it's not you. Which is the problem to begin with).

Whenever someone tells me "yeah, (I hope) I'll do this and that in the future" I look at him/her, smiling and reply with "ain't false consciousness grand?". And they look at me as if I'm crazy.

I so don't get this.


erikaj - Jan 25, 2010 9:51:35 am PST #7782 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Actually, I know many great psychologists who aren't using their profession to play little gotcha games with the peasants. But I have met the other kind too.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 25, 2010 9:55:01 am PST #7783 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

What are some questions I should ask at the interview? I am brain dead.


Shir - Jan 25, 2010 9:56:51 am PST #7784 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I'm just being misunderstood so many times a day. With some people I fear it can be more labeling than misunderstanding.

OTOH, it's a good thing I'm coming through with formal, cheery and "routinal" comment most times. Though it makes me feel even less understood, at times.

Why more people can't be Bitches? We get along!

Nora, honey, good luck. ~ma.


Polter-Cow - Jan 25, 2010 9:58:12 am PST #7785 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Good luck, Nora. We just interviewed an admin candidate, and he didn't ask a lot of questions of us, but he put forth his best qualities and expanded upon what was on his résumé by telling us funny stories.


omnis_audis - Jan 25, 2010 9:58:19 am PST #7786 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

It is Monday. I am not at work. Still in bed. Have one cat purring next to me. And kitten randomly hopping up and chasing my toes. I chalk this up as a good day so far. Must go to market to buy ingridients for chicken parm. Making dinner for hosts tonight.


Connie Neil - Jan 25, 2010 10:00:40 am PST #7787 of 30000
brillig

I'm very reluctant to see a shrink. I expect I'd be all hostile and looking for manipulation and being contemptuous of jargon. Shrinks must hate people who have an awareness of how psychology is supposed to work. It's like magicians performing for other magicians, who are looking for how the trick is done.


Shir - Jan 25, 2010 10:02:27 am PST #7788 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

It is Monday. I am not at work. Still in bed. Have one cat purring next to me. And kitten randomly hopping up and chasing my toes. I chalk this up as a good day so far

That sounds wonderful.