I can handle the Oz Full Monty. I mean, not 'handle' handle.

Xander ,'Help'


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javachik - Dec 16, 2009 10:37:48 am PST #3962 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Jess, thanks for the feedback!!


Ginger - Dec 16, 2009 10:42:37 am PST #3963 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

(You might want to also post that in Tech, java.)

Oh, Nora. I hate those meetings. I still twitch when I think about the time one of my more asshat supervisors said that he'd been irritated all year that I didn't bring my calendar to meetings. I didn't see any need for it, because I knew my immediate schedule and I'd put any dates in my notes and enter them in Outlook. I, on the other hand, had been irritated all year that he was the last person in the department not using the Outlook calendar system, which had made him miss several important meetings.

He was the same supervisor whom I would ask for help, since I had had an ever-growing website added to my existing duties, and he's say, "Well, everyone's plate is pretty full." Then when something was late a few weeks later, he'd say, "Why didn't you ask for help?"


javachik - Dec 16, 2009 10:44:50 am PST #3964 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Thanks Ginger, I shall.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 16, 2009 10:50:24 am PST #3965 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I just sent my boss an email thanking him for his feedback, appreciating the fact that he continued to hold the conversation with me while I was in tears, and offering to start the new year early by readjusting my attitude to expectations as of today.

Basically, the only thing I really meant was the thing about continuing conversation while I was crying, but I hope the other two will help me, in a "fake it till I make it" kind of way.


Toddson - Dec 16, 2009 10:55:31 am PST #3966 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Nora, sorry about the job problems. sigh ....

On the lighter side, an appropriate gingerbread construction for us.


javachik - Dec 16, 2009 10:58:10 am PST #3967 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

"fake it till I make it"

A key to getting through this. It sucks, but it's real.


-t - Dec 16, 2009 11:07:55 am PST #3968 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That sounds like a good response, Nora. Good luck.


Polter-Cow - Dec 16, 2009 11:07:56 am PST #3969 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Anyway I write this here in the hopes that one of you has a site you use for work that you LOVE?

java, we use Accellion, and it's pretty great, especially if you want your files to be secure. It will shred the fuck out of them after fourteen days.

But it's not like YouSendIt where you can just go to the website and use it; they set up a company-specific secure file transfer site for us. Which is easy to use.


javachik - Dec 16, 2009 11:10:09 am PST #3970 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Thanks, P-C!


Trudy Booth - Dec 16, 2009 11:11:29 am PST #3971 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Hang in there, Nora. Put on that cheery grin!!!!

Roommate wrote back. Was smoking, won't now. All is well.