One of the hardest parts is that because his wife is taking chemo, she can't go to the hospital. She does have quite a few local relatives who are taking care of things. There's not going to be a lot I can do, since her relatives view me as a know-it-all and possibly Communist, but I know they do love my cousin.
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Aw, crud, Ginger. Fuck cancer, and so much ~ma for your cousin, his wife, and your whole family.
Oh Ginger! I'm so, so sorry.
Ginger, that's...that's unspeakable. I am so sorry.
I thought you were proud of your nausea-inducing links!
I'm just trying to share the wealth, that's all. I think my rep is somewhat biased.
Wait, that was the good stuff? What have you been holding back?
Harrumph. The things I do for you people...the lack of appreciation I get...
God, Ginger, that's awful.
It really is approaching Job-like proportions. Mother's three brothers are gone and her sister, whom she never liked, is in a nursing home, and Mother has expended way too much time and energy on dealing with her in the past few years. Mother is losing her eyesight to macular degeneration and has congestive heart failure. She's also deeply depressed, but I can't get her to talk to a doctor about that.
I am so sorry, Ginger. That is so dreadful.
Insurance adjuster was here this afternoon. Likely to get bathroom re-drywalled after the roof is fixed. He's also going to ask for coverage on the damage the antenna did on the rood when it came down. Andi and I are going out to get that tarp now...
I meant to offer sympathy for Laura's mother and for Wallybee. I have many family members of my heart whose troubles hurt me far more than my blood relatives.
Let me echo this. Thinking the post doesn't help if I don't post the post.
Ginger, I'm so sorry.
Ginger, very sorry. And.
Fuck. Cancer.