I meant to offer sympathy for Laura's mother and for Wallybee. I have many family members of my heart whose troubles hurt me far more than my blood relatives. 
Let me echo this. Thinking the post doesn't help if I don't post the post. 
Ginger, I'm so sorry. 
	
 
		
		
I'm really sorry, Ginger.
	
 
		
		
Oy, Ginger. So very sorry.
	
 
		
		
{{Laura's Mom and Wallybee}}
Ginger - speechless.  So very sorry.
	
 
		
		
Ginger, that is so hard. I am sorry.
	
 
		
		
Ginger, that's horrible. I am so sorry.
	
 
		
		
Ginger, I'm so sorry. What a terrible thing.
BT, all good thoughts to you, wallybee and her chosen family.
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and yay, sj, for the lovely choice for wedding venue! It's so pretty. I hope the car is easily fixed and that TCG doesn't argue with you when you start wrapping him in bubble wrap.
	
 
		
		
Sending a bit Fuck cancer to Ginger's extended family.