Mal: Well, look at this! Appears we got here just in the nick of time. What does that make us? Zoe: Big damn heroes, sir.

'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


amyth - Aug 17, 2010 6:43:06 am PDT #28899 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Dag.


Jessica - Aug 17, 2010 6:44:08 am PDT #28900 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I didn't immediately see any other sources for that, so it may be just rumor. (And that blog post is from yesterday, so for all I know it's already been debunked.)


smonster - Aug 17, 2010 6:51:40 am PDT #28901 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Fuck. The "Christian" terrorists have won this one. striking until it's confirmed

While I understand the desire to not make waves, excessive deference to the dominant culture has (I think) a greater deleterious effect than open conflict. Such deference reinforces the idea that a given non-dominant-culture group must defer to the dominant culture even when the dominant culture's values and sentiment diverges from the law....and that is a very bad idea.

Damn, Matt, I love your spicy brains. Keith O pointed out that they have more to fear from us, than us from them. There's this recurring theme where when a certain segment of the US white Christian population* encounters anything out of their experience, they experience it as having that thing "shoved in their face." I don't they are self-aware enough to realize that racial, cultural, religious, and sexual minorities have the dominant culture shoved in their face every damn day, and they are (in some cases literally) dying for safe spaces and a little leeway to express themselves and be who they are.

I know that I both chose to live in other countries and am extraordinarily priviliged to have been able to do so, but I wish every American could have that experience, be able to see their country and culture from the outside, let go of the poison of American essentialism and xenophobia.

* Please note my care in not tarring all whites and/or all Christians with the same brush, and I am certainly not referring to Buffistas here.


Laura - Aug 17, 2010 6:53:29 am PDT #28902 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

bt, peace and strength wishes for all the loved ones. Such sad news.

On the link above, huh. Sure haven't heard anything about that on the broadcast news.


erikaj - Aug 17, 2010 6:53:42 am PDT #28903 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

I haven't read that anywhere else, though. If it is true, that would be handing them a win, though. Yes. ETA: Bloggers aren't on it, either, Laura.


Fred Pete - Aug 17, 2010 6:57:24 am PDT #28904 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

Comfort~ma for Wallybee's friends and family.


Daisy Jane - Aug 17, 2010 7:08:15 am PDT #28905 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

ita, I snagged this from my cousin, but how's this for a hands photo [link]


§ ita § - Aug 17, 2010 7:11:33 am PDT #28906 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I can't check facebook from here, DJ, so I'll bookmark it to check from home.


Matt H - Aug 17, 2010 7:21:58 am PDT #28907 of 30000
Musikalicen Opfer

Damn, Matt, I love your spicy brains. Keith O pointed out that they have more to fear from us, than us from them. There's this recurring theme where when a certain segment of the US white Christian population* encounters anything out of their experience, they experience it as having that thing "shoved in their face." I don't they are self-aware enough to realize that racial, cultural, religious, and sexual minorities have the dominant culture shoved in their face every damn day, and they are (in some cases literally) dying for safe spaces and a little leeway to express themselves and be who they are.

Speaking of spicy brains.....wow, those are some powerful words.

I don't think that one has to live in another country to get it; the experience of otherness is (IMHO, YMMV) key to a wider perspective.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 17, 2010 7:40:06 am PDT #28908 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

There's this recurring theme where when a certain segment of the US white Christian population* encounters anything out of their experience, they experience it as having that thing "shoved in their face." I don't they are self-aware enough to realize that racial, cultural, religious, and sexual minorities have the dominant culture shoved in their face every damn day, and they are (in some cases literally) dying for safe spaces and a little leeway to express themselves and be who they are.

Yes.