um, Tep, you might want to point out that the ex would probably be happier knowing that the nekkid pics are no longer floating around somewhere.
Harken: You fought with Captain Reynolds in the war? Zoe: Fought with a lot of people in the war. Harken: And your husband? Zoe: Fight with him sometimes, too.
'Bushwhacked'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Toddson - Aug 06, 2010 5:35:45 pm PDT #27833 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Steph L. - Aug 06, 2010 5:36:58 pm PDT #27834 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Yeah, I guess I wasn't totally clear in my original post. I said "naughty pictures," because I was trying to, y'know, make it a blurry watercolor instead of saying oh my god, my boyfriend has naked pictures of his ex-wife. (A lot.) (And wow, I could NEVER do that, and she's like half my size, and I just don't want him to start comparing how she was all slender and uninhibited and I'm all fat and refuse to immortalize my fat naked self in photos.)
(And eating dinner would help my state of mind, I get that. And not having this fucking headache.)
Cass - Aug 06, 2010 5:38:59 pm PDT #27835 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Yeah, I guess I wasn't totally clear in my original post.
I was just unclear because I thought you wanted all of the pictures gone. Not just the naughty ones.
Yeah, you show your awesome living in awesome sin girlfriend nakeds of the ex and they need to go away. End of question for me.
Cass - Aug 06, 2010 5:39:57 pm PDT #27836 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Also, eat. Drink some water and eat something. You will feel better.
Steph L. - Aug 06, 2010 5:49:17 pm PDT #27837 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism
I maybe shouldn't have shared all that. But I'm just a raw nerve right now, and I just flipped out like a mammal. But internally.
beth b - Aug 06, 2010 5:52:34 pm PDT #27838 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Ler's just say i agree. naked pictures are something that should be discrete
Pix - Aug 06, 2010 6:00:25 pm PDT #27839 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Um. Wow. I agree it probably wasn't intentional, but I agree the nekkid pics should go away. Hang in there, sweetie.
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As if he doesn't have enough healing to do, poor Drew is sick. He had either a massive allergy attack or the start of a horrible cold out of the blue about an hour ago. He's collapsed in bed now.
WindSparrow - Aug 06, 2010 6:16:10 pm PDT #27840 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Poor Drew. Feel better quickly!
Pix - Aug 06, 2010 7:35:59 pm PDT #27841 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
I hope he does. As Cash pointed out elsewhere, sneezing and coughing after abdominal surgery--laparoscopic or not--is not fun. He's been asleep for a couple of hours now. Worried about him.
Scrappy - Aug 06, 2010 7:37:10 pm PDT #27842 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
I have pictures of ex BFs and ex-husband. And a couple of naked ones in there of one of them (but not sexy times naked, just sitting on the bed with the light coming in the windows in a cool way naked). They're mine and in my file box where J would probably never see them. I assume he has pix of exes, too. Sexy pix would freak me out, though.
IO ex-pix N, a couple of weeks ago our cleaning lady found a big framed wedding picture of the DH and his ex-wife gazing lovingly into each other's eyes and helpfully put it on THE BEDSIDE TABLE. We think it had somehow slipped behind a bookshelf somewhere.