Steph, I am so sorry. I am sending you and The Boy love and strength.
You like ships. You don't seem to be looking at the destinations. What you care about is the ships, and mine's the nicest.
Kaylee ,'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Burrell - Jul 31, 2010 4:10:27 pm PDT #27123 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
WindSparrow - Jul 31, 2010 4:16:07 pm PDT #27124 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Gene Weingarten's deal with his daughter. Elope? $25,000 in cash. Wedding? He'll come.
I like that deal. Too bad there's nobody with the moolah to make it to me.
lisah - Jul 31, 2010 4:26:56 pm PDT #27125 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate
Steph, I'm thinking about you and your boy, his family, and his mother and wishing you all strength and peace.
hippocampus - Jul 31, 2010 4:45:41 pm PDT #27126 of 30000
not your mom's socks.
Steph we are thinking about you and the Boy's family here and wishing you strength and comfort.
Ie. What lisah said
NoiseDesign - Jul 31, 2010 5:20:52 pm PDT #27127 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
Steph I'm thinking of you.
I was in the boys situation with my dad. Pix was in yours. Trust me, everything you are doing means the world to him.
smonster - Jul 31, 2010 5:45:56 pm PDT #27128 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
So much strength and love going out to you and The Boy. We happened to be discussing a similar situation in DBT and one of the facilitators shared a bit of wisdom that has helped her: stay close, do nothing. Your presence is what matters.
Nora Deirdre - Jul 31, 2010 6:56:57 pm PDT #27129 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
{{Steph}}
sj, yay for sarcasm! I am sad these days, so it may color what I read.
beekaytee - Jul 31, 2010 7:11:32 pm PDT #27130 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
a bit of wisdom that has helped her: stay close, do nothing.
Father Wendt, the founder of the agency where I was trained as a death, dying and bereavement counselor, talked about how he found his calling to work with those in transition.
As a young priest, he was nervous about 'doing it right' when visiting with the dying. Early on, one elderly lady set him right as he pontificated about the grace of death and her bravery, etc. etc. At one point, she interrupted him with, "Dear God. Could you please just shut up and rub my feet!"
Her putting him in his place became the foundation of a wonderful organization that has helped thousands and thousands of people.
Steph L. - Jul 31, 2010 8:19:52 pm PDT #27131 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism
You know what's AWESOME? Coming home at 12:30, alone, from supporting your partner while his mother is dying, to find the dog sprawled in a giant pile of her own shit, all over the living room floor and her fur and feet.
Cleaning the floor was a piece of cake compared to cleaning her, because she can't stand having her feet touched, and they were caked with poop.
Oh my fucking god.
I was going to come home and post something about how it's hard but it's actually really beautiful that Tim and his brothers have the chance to help their mother die as lovingly as possible -- and it IS -- but OH MY FUCKING GOD THE SHIT EVERYWHERE THE DOG SHIT.
I can no longer remember why I don't keep bourbon in the house.
beekaytee - Jul 31, 2010 8:25:32 pm PDT #27132 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
Oh Tep. I am so, SO sorry. God. That just stinks...literally. I'm just shaking my head and feeling terrible for you. And poor Chloe!
Bless your heart.