the woman actually looks like she's enjoying herself.
and doesn't sound like a kitten being strangled.
Yesterday, my life's like, 'Uh-oh, pop quiz!' Today it's like, 'rain of toads.'
Xander ,'Beneath You'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Vortex - Jul 16, 2010 11:16:03 am PDT #25770 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jul 16, 2010 11:17:30 am PDT #25771 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"
I like Aims's definition of erotica vs porn.
I'm off to bed at 9.15 because I've had enough of today. Most recent attempt to come off anti-depressants is making me cranky (and cry in public a lot).
Fred Pete - Jul 16, 2010 11:19:47 am PDT #25772 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.
are the men who watch gay porn looking for something different than the men watching het porn?
I think one difference is that, when gay men watch the gay stuff, the watcher can fantasize (almost by definition) being in the, um, shoes of more than one, um, participant. Straight men watching the het stuff, that's less likely.
Sean K - Jul 16, 2010 11:21:49 am PDT #25773 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Lack of a female orgasm is something lacking in most mainstream pron.
I don't know that that's actually true. Even in the mainstream stuff I don't watch, there's at least some kind of nod to the female orgasm, in that she'll at least make orgasm noises. Definitely the stuff I watch does not lack in that area, and if they're faking it for the camera, they are at least good at faking it. And believe me, there's plenty of that I can find (thank you, youporn).
I think there's plenty of cases, certainly in the stuff I watch, that she's not faking it, cuz a) still actually having some sex there, and b) the stuff I like isn't just a woman enjoying herself, it's a woman REALLY enjoying herself. That's hot.
Aaaaand now that I've made several awkwardly TMI confessions.... I'll be in my bunk.
Sean K - Jul 16, 2010 11:25:43 am PDT #25774 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Lack of a female orgasm is something lacking in most mainstream pron.
Technically, squirting porn (whether solo or with a partner) is primarily about the female orgasm. And while it's a niche, squirting porn has become a fairly mainstream niche.
Fred Pete - Jul 16, 2010 11:26:06 am PDT #25775 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.
Sean, if you can't be awkwardly TMI in this thread, where can you be?
Aims - Jul 16, 2010 11:27:23 am PDT #25776 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I should have left my "normal" in there. I do not enjoy the squirting porn.
Aims - Jul 16, 2010 11:27:59 am PDT #25777 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Fred is so right. I IM'd to Debet the other day, "THE PORN HAS RETURNED TO BITCHES! ATTENTION! THE PRON HAS RETURNED TO BITCHES!"
SailAweigh - Jul 16, 2010 11:33:07 am PDT #25778 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
the watcher can fantasize (almost by definition) being in the, um, shoes of more than one, um, participant.
That seems to me the best part of it! Not that, as a female who watches male gay porn, I couldn't fantasize myself into the male role in het porn, it just doesn't seem to happen without making an effort. In gay porn, well, I could be either one, because I'm neither one.
brenda m - Jul 16, 2010 11:39:10 am PDT #25779 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I know it when I see it was Potter Stewart, a Supreme Court justice.