Well, I guess we all know who to blame when the oil runs out. Sorry, world! We just like keeping things cold!
Spike: Ladies. Come on in. Plenty of blood in the fridge, don't be shy. Dawn: You mean like, real blood? Spike: What do you think? Dawn: Mostly I think, 'Eew!'
'Potential'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
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Jessica - Jul 01, 2010 4:57:26 am PDT #24442 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
Aims - Jul 01, 2010 5:18:56 am PDT #24443 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
PMS-y overly emotional rant ahead:
So my mother in law made a pretty innocent comment on my FB about me needing more kids. Actually, she was agreeing with a friend of ours that said I needed more when I posted I didn't finish my chores. I know the spirit in which she meant it, but GD - shut up lady. I know she's totally clueless and doesn't think before she speaks, but maybe she could TAKE A BLEEDING HINT that if there have been no other children in ALMOST SIX YEARS, there's a good chance there aren't going to be anymore OR that there's a problem. Not everyone waits NINETEEN YEARS to have a second effing kid, like she did.
I know I'm all hormonal and shit, and that she wasn't trying to be hurtful, but damn. Let's at least use both hands to try to find a clue, please?
Personally, I think that anyone commenting the size of someone else's family is rude as fuck.
Nora Deirdre - Jul 01, 2010 5:20:56 am PDT #24444 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Aims, I just saw that and came over here to see if you were OK. I blanched when I read it. Maybe she didn't mean to be hurtful, but seriously, WTF???
I'm sorry. Is there something that would be helpful and/or satisfying for me to comment on there?
Jessica - Jul 01, 2010 5:24:02 am PDT #24445 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
Oh, holy fuck, Aims, what is wrong with people??
Gudanov - Jul 01, 2010 5:24:22 am PDT #24446 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping
Personally, I think that anyone commenting the size of someone else's family is rude as fuck.
Even more rude than commenting on the size of someone else's refrigerator?
Aims - Jul 01, 2010 5:24:49 am PDT #24447 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I'm mostly ok. I need to email her and say, "I know you didn't mean to be hurtful, but there aren't any more children because there are issues." but I know - I flipping KNOW - that she's going to reply with how she couldn't conceive anymore after D and how sad she was and wtf-ever. I can hear that from friends and know that it's coming from a place of empathy. I can not hear her in a place of empathy - we don't have that relationship. Largely because I reject it, for damn sure.
Like our friend R, who made the "you need more kids" comment in the first place. I know he's joking with me because he has a shit ton of kids who are all over 10 and who do all the chores. We joke about his little housecleaning army. There's an inside joke there. But as my MiL, she doesn't get to say "Agreed". It's awhole other ball of wax. Unless I'm just being cranky. Please tell me if I'm just being cranky.
sj - Jul 01, 2010 5:28:11 am PDT #24448 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
{{{Aims}}} I'm sorry for the cluelessness.
brenda m - Jul 01, 2010 5:31:19 am PDT #24449 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
We joke about his little housecleaning army. There's an inside joke there. But as my MiL, she doesn't get to say "Agreed".
Oh, yeah. That's not cool. You may be cranky, but she's the one who took it to a serious (and hurtful) place.
WindSparrow - Jul 01, 2010 5:40:36 am PDT #24450 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
That's a crappy situation, Aims.
Gudanov - Jul 01, 2010 5:41:24 am PDT #24451 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping
Sorry she took you to a hurtful place.