The girl's not playing with a full deck, Giles. She has almost no deck. She has a three.

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jun 15, 2010 10:18:41 am PDT #22597 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

But these days I often see a line come to a standstill because someone's more interested in their cellphone conversation than their transaction.

I used to do mystery shopping at grocery stores, and I *loved* being able to describe in my report how the cashier and bagger were so busy talking to each other that (1) I stood there waiting and then got a look of impatience FROM THE CASHIER when I asked if she could ring me up, and/or (2) completely messed up the checkout process, to the point where I was markedly overcharged and was told "I ain't gonna fix it. Go up to the service desk."

(I also used my powers for good; any time I got good service, I made a point to report that, too.)


Daisy Jane - Jun 15, 2010 10:19:50 am PDT #22598 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Ah, see, we had a totally polite, if passive aggressive way of handling it.

To person on the phone: I understand you're having an important conversation. I'll take the next person and let you finish up with that.


Shir - Jun 15, 2010 10:22:32 am PDT #22599 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Hil: And that's why I loved New York. People say what they mean and get on with things. It's like a more fun, less passive-aggressive London.

Now, bear in mind that even in New York, I still was able to see through people's masks as their face turned red and they didn't want to say anything embarrassing to the nice Israeli tourist. A friend of mine said that Americans are only polite to each other beacuse they don't know if the other one is armed.

I don't see it very often on Brits, though. I can't read them with their manners, so I don't care about what strikes me as hypocrisy.


Daisy Jane - Jun 15, 2010 10:24:29 am PDT #22600 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

A friend of mine said that Americans are only polite to each other beacuse they don't know if the other one is armed.

Actually we're generally polite to each other because the vast majority of us are nice friendly people.


Trudy Booth - Jun 15, 2010 10:25:29 am PDT #22601 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Oh, Trudy, don't ever move to the South. Your head will explode.

I spent a year in North Florida as a child in and two in South West Virginia as a college stsudent. I loved both a lot -- but when the plane is landing at Kennedy, LaGuardia, or Newark I give a sigh of relief that things are back to Trudy Normal.

One nice things about New Yorkers and our legendary brusqueness is we don't care WHERE the hell you're from - if you're lingering at the top or the bottom of the subway stairs (and have no discernable impairment) you're a war criminal.


lisah - Jun 15, 2010 10:26:18 am PDT #22602 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Actually we're generally polite to each other because the vast majority of us are nice friendly people.

Yeah, this has been my experience as well.


Cass - Jun 15, 2010 10:26:41 am PDT #22603 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Fire Festival

That's ... gorgeous.

I want to go to Kiev!


Trudy Booth - Jun 15, 2010 10:26:57 am PDT #22604 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

A friend of mine said that Americans are only polite to each other beacuse they don't know if the other one is armed.

As long as you're not in my way you can pack whatever heat you want.


Toddson - Jun 15, 2010 10:28:49 am PDT #22605 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

You missed this year's fire festival, but you have a year to save up, get your visa, make preparations for next year's (stock up on flammables).


Shir - Jun 15, 2010 10:29:10 am PDT #22606 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Actually we're generally polite to each other because the vast majority of us are nice friendly people.

Yeah, I thought that statement was a bit odd too.

But I could still use a little more of opinion and a little less of reservation about expressing opinions. Opinions never killed anyone - actions did.