Shir, I am so sorry that happened to you. In Israeli terms, I'm probably somewhere between dati and chareidi (cover my hair 100%, pretty machmir about things, but I send my kids to a yeshiva that prepares them for college and let them -gasp-watch TV and listen to secular music) and I am outraged.
Sinat chinam (baseless hatred) destroyed our national life and sent us into galut (diaspora) 2000 years ago. There is no place for that kind of hatred, pettiness, or G-d forbid violence in the true Torah life. Men like that need to get real jobs, support their families, actually learn what Torah means, and raise their sons to go to hesder yeshivot (Torah institutions where students also serve in the army) at least, instead of faking it in the beit midrash, sucking on welfare checks and their wives' little jobs, and hanging out on street corners acting criminally stupid.
Late as ever - I haven't had time to come here in a while - but meant sincerely.
Sean, anything we can do to help? long-distance snuggles?
Sean, been there.
Not today, though.
Often enough.
Shir's experience is one of the reasons theocracies are scary. So much emphasis on the letter and so little on the spirit.
wrod. Also, if someone is Completely Wrong, and Damned, what is your incentive to accomodate them?
It's really hard for me to grasp a mindset that says "God told me to play childish, dangerous practical jokes on women I don't approve of." Why would you worship a god like that? (Of course, considering what god did to Job....)
~ma of any kind needed, Sean.
Wrod.
Perhaps a hobby...stamp collecting, or quiet reflection.
(Of course, considering what god did to Job....)
I was so shocked when I realized the trials of Job were a bar bet with the devil.
smonster, I'd never seen hollaback! THAT IS AWESOME!
Yer welcome! I never have the presence of mind/ovaries to hollaback, but I love that people are doing it.
I keep turning Shir's experience in my mind, trying to come up with karmic justice that wouldn't "invite" further violence... plainsclothes female cops walking the area with backup? Take back the streets mass action? And to be clear, Shir, I am not trying to imply that you should do any of these things. I'm just frustrated on your behalf and outraged.
I use a combo of Diva Cup and Lunapads. I find both much more comfortable than the disposable alternatives.