You know, with the exception of one deadly and unpredictable midget, this girl is the smallest cargo I've ever had to transport. Yet by far the most troublesome. Does that seem right to you?

Early ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 12, 2009 7:08:40 am PST #206 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Also, I never really understood wearing an A-shirt as underwear. It seems to me that the undershirt's job is to protect your outer shirt from your armpits, and the A-shirt does not do that!


ChiKat - Nov 12, 2009 7:10:53 am PST #207 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Fuck the persimmons!

Did anyone else go to an American Pie place? Just me?


Steph L. - Nov 12, 2009 7:12:36 am PST #208 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Fuck the persimmons!

Did anyone else go to an American Pie place? Just me?

I *did* say "not literally" to forestall you pervy people! I see it cannot be forestalled. It is a force unto itself, like El Nino.


ChiKat - Nov 12, 2009 7:21:48 am PST #209 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

I *did* say "not literally" to forestall you pervy people!

You said it in the next line, though. By the time my eye moved to the next line, it was way too late.


DavidS - Nov 12, 2009 7:24:33 am PST #210 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Do you jew people down in negotiation too?

No, but I never used the word "jew" in that way.


DavidS - Nov 12, 2009 7:26:11 am PST #211 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Fact is, that you will make people do a doubletake when they hear it even if they know what it means. If using the word is that important to you, fine.

I did address these issues noting that I wouldn't use the word where it would misheard or misconstrued and I wasn't insisting on it to the exclusion of all other considerations.


Laura - Nov 12, 2009 7:28:56 am PST #212 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Birthday to Jessica!

Have nothing to add, except giggles, to the doubletake word discussion.


§ ita § - Nov 12, 2009 7:35:56 am PST #213 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I never used the word "jew" in that way.

I'm assuming you have no problem with it, though.


beekaytee - Nov 12, 2009 7:39:03 am PST #214 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Skipping 130 posts to rush to the end and say what has surely been said already but...anyway.

Aims, I thoroughly enjoyed the Avalon video. What a gift your work is...and with such great seeming people. Good on ya.


smonster - Nov 12, 2009 7:39:20 am PST #215 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

No, but I never used the word "jew" in that way.

That's not the point, which I suspect you already know. The point is that "jew" and "gyp" are exact parallels, synonyms for "cheat" which embody negative cultural stereotypes about Jews and Gypsies, respectively. Both are in current usage, though "gypped" seems to be more common.

So, if "jew" was in your personal vocab, would you continue to use it, or is it only okay to denigrate gypsies and not jews? Does it matter to you that the Roma/Romani see the very term "gypsy" as an insult? Is it okay if you don't know any Gypsies?

The bottom line is that you put your freedom to use culturally offensive words over the feelings of those offended. Can you think of a time when you use equivalently offensive terms that apply to your own ethnic group? If not, I'd like you to consider that your privilege may be involved.

Yes, this is an emotional issue for me, being culturally half-Jewish and haveing lived in a country for two years where "tsigani" (Roma) are pretty much treated like blacks in the pre-Civil Rights era.

editing to clarify that my sensitivity to culturally offensive words is not limited to those groups of which I am a part or with which I feel affinity.

also, I am stepping away to cool off and prep for a meeting. will return later today.