Y'all are welcome for the links. I hope you find them useful. DBT gives me the "how" that I found missing in so much self-help stuff. Like, how do I do something I absolutely loathe and dread.
We didn't have sex, if that's what you mean. That's all I do now, not have sex.
Anya ,'Dirty Girls'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
smonster - May 25, 2010 1:31:35 pm PDT #20313 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
NoiseDesign - May 25, 2010 2:13:38 pm PDT #20314 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
I am taking a sanity break at The Haunted Mansion.
Pix - May 25, 2010 2:25:44 pm PDT #20315 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
Work has made me uber cranky again. Not even worth going into but I've realized that I am on a committee that exists purely to say that there was a committee. I am not allowed to actually have an opinion if the opinion strays from what the administration has already decided. I *hate* shit like that.
Atropa - May 25, 2010 2:30:26 pm PDT #20316 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
I am taking a sanity break at The Haunted Mansion.
I AM SO JEALOUS. I also wish that was an option for me. My work day would be vastly better if I could go on the Haunted Mansion.
Aims - May 25, 2010 2:32:16 pm PDT #20317 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
OMG. This is my last place of peace. FB has ceased to be that for me ever since my MiL joined.
I need to start blocking her. OMG.
JZ - May 25, 2010 2:33:40 pm PDT #20318 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I am embarrassed to admit just how much...not better, but less unbearable, my day has become through the simple expedient of bringing a towel. It's been right next to me all day, and I can touch it every now and then and say, "By gum, I know where my towel is."
Really, it makes me feel enough better that I'm kind of worried about myself. I spent half my childhood as that crazy kid with the blanket (and then, later, that crazy kid with the worn-out Snoopy whose head was almost falling off from hugging); I really don't need to become known as the crazy lady with the towel.
Aims - May 25, 2010 2:34:12 pm PDT #20319 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
A towel can be used to choke a bitch, yes?
tommyrot - May 25, 2010 2:38:37 pm PDT #20320 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
I forgot my towel.
Luckily, today held no Vogon poetry or other evils....
Atropa - May 25, 2010 2:58:01 pm PDT #20321 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
I really don't need to become known as the crazy lady with the towel.
JZ, honey. I take advice from a fanged toy bunny. Really, you've got nothing to worry about.
beekaytee - May 25, 2010 3:02:25 pm PDT #20322 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
Y'all are welcome for the links. I hope you find them useful. DBT gives me the "how" that I found missing in so much self-help stuff. Like, how do I do something I absolutely loathe and dread.
This is the very core of what I do these days. The How is so much more important than the Why, in my estimation.
And, JZ, the towel is an awesome tool! More than a simple object, it represents your choice to feel differently...plus a touchstone to both anchor and regenerate the choice.
Sounds way more practical than crazy to me.
o/!
hmph. My Paul Gross arms did not work.