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javachik - Apr 16, 2010 10:00:35 am PDT #16255 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I was up between 1:30 and 3 this morning, on a con call with our European partner. I manage the database and file share that we use to communicate, and so I had to be on the call. I keep this 24/7 availability and my boss has never questioned any time I've arrived or left the office.

But I am incredibly fortunate and I know it.


Zenkitty - Apr 16, 2010 10:02:16 am PDT #16256 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I used to have that "discussion" with my current boss a lot, too. Mainly she just wanted me to be apologetic and all subordinate when she got pissy about it, which was usually when her boss got on *her* case about some stupid shit. Bottom line, as long as the work gets done on time, no one really cares. Now, working from home, as long as I return her calls within about an hour, she doesn't even ask what I'm doing or when.

Telecommuting has saved my life, I swear, and I'll never quit this job unless I can find another job with good pay, good bennies, and full-time telecommuting. (Not likely, I think.) This company knows they have my soul now. It was an evil plot all along.

But I am incredibly fortunate and I know it.

Yes, this.


javachik - Apr 16, 2010 10:04:14 am PDT #16257 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I used to have that "discussion" with my current boss a lot, too. Mainly she just wanted me to be apologetic and all subordinate when she got pissy about it, which was usually when her boss got on *her* case about some stupid shit.

This is such a frequent phenomenon, isn't it?

Zen, what is it that you do? How nice about the telecommuting! (It's what I am doing today, too)


Steph L. - Apr 16, 2010 10:07:49 am PDT #16258 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have a co-worker, rather than a boss, who gets pissy when I'm 5-10 minutes late. She's snitted several times that I should call even if I'm going to be 3 minutes late. Finally I asked my boss in front of snitty!co-worker if he wanted me to call if I was less than 15 minutes late, and he said, "God, no! Just get here."

I work 9-5 and snitty!co-worker works 7:30-3:30, so she has no idea if I work late, and also doesn't seem to give a crap if I work through lunch or on the weekend. But god help you if you're 5 minutes late and don't call.

Conclusion: people is weird.


Stephanie - Apr 16, 2010 10:10:28 am PDT #16259 of 30000
Trust my rage

I was just angsting about this yesterday. I've always worked in a place where people could see me so I tend to stress about being 5 minutes late - or not accomplishing enough when I work from home. I'm hoping I will relax as I get settled into this new job.


Jessica - Apr 16, 2010 10:12:23 am PDT #16260 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Nobody here cares if I'm late. OTOH, it's rare that anyone notices either, because I get in an hour earlier than everyone else.


Atropa - Apr 16, 2010 10:12:56 am PDT #16261 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

One of the reasons I want to stay with the team I'm currently contracting with is that they don't care when you get there, as long as work gets done. AND they have work-at-home Fridays, which is fantastic.


Zenkitty - Apr 16, 2010 10:14:20 am PDT #16262 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

java, I'm Senior Editor for a couple professional engineering journals published by IEEE. They initiated the telecommuting program about 2 years ago, when they realized they'd save alotta money if all those heat-sucking air-breathing light-needing people weren't in the building. Now, my office is my laptop, and I can work anywhere I can get a fast Internet connection. It's awesome.

What do you do, with the 24/7 availability?


Calli - Apr 16, 2010 10:15:02 am PDT #16263 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm usually the first person in my unit to arrive, because I'm something of a morning person. I also leave at 5 on the dot (barring special circumstances) because I've been here for a full work day and my productivity nose-dives after 3 or so. I've gotten a resentful look or two, but mostly from the woman who gets in around 10. She's not in my chain of command, so whatevs.


javachik - Apr 16, 2010 10:18:35 am PDT #16264 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

What do you do, with the 24/7 availability?

I run the regulatory operations (and publishing) group at an awesome little biotech. I also manage the information sharing between our company and our European partner (and some of our vendors).

Your job sounds ideal!

I need to add that the senior manager who reports to me (most of you know about how great he is) is someone for whom an 8-4ish schedule is very important. So it works perfectly because my group always has an onsite presence early in the day and I can be very flexible with my time. And if he's working on a project that needs to be done by close of business, I usually offer to take it over at 4:30 so that he can leave. It's so perfect that I almost can't believe it.