Wesley: I stabbed you. I should apologize for that. But I'm honestly not sure how. I think it'll just be awkward. Gunn: Good call. Wesley: Okay.

'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Glamcookie - Apr 13, 2010 9:12:48 am PDT #15952 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Sparky, that is what I think I'll do. At least it'll put my mind at ease.


Jessica - Apr 13, 2010 9:13:03 am PDT #15953 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I'm sure it's fine to wait until Friday, GC.

(If you're really nervous, you could always grab a close male friend and ask him to look at it. I pretty much let DH handle any penis-related baby issues.)


§ ita § - Apr 13, 2010 9:22:36 am PDT #15954 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

And I've heard in Czech, there are as many words for "Beer" as Eskimos have for "snow".

You do know the Eskimo-words-for-snow thing is bunkum, right?


Glamcookie - Apr 13, 2010 9:23:02 am PDT #15955 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I called and they said it sounded fine to wait until Friday since it's not oozing or red. It's a fairly sizable chunk - I hope it's okay.


DavidS - Apr 13, 2010 9:59:35 am PDT #15956 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

It's a fairly sizable chunk - I hope it's okay.

This is a disquieting image but I don't think I really quite understand. Where's it missing? The glans? The shaft? The head? Is it where the circumcision happened?

Is it like an indentation? Or a gouge?

I ask because penises come in many varieties and they're not always uh, symmetrical.

Though I think the doctor's concern about whether the wound is raw or sore is probably the key point.


Glamcookie - Apr 13, 2010 10:03:53 am PDT #15957 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

It's underneath, where the head meets the shaft. I think it's like a gouge. At least it's underneath? Eeek!

ETA: Yes, it's where the circ happened.


DavidS - Apr 13, 2010 10:07:21 am PDT #15958 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Sounds like at the frenulum? (medical drawing of penis)


Glamcookie - Apr 13, 2010 10:08:52 am PDT #15959 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Yes, that looks like the spot alright.


Connie Neil - Apr 13, 2010 10:09:57 am PDT #15960 of 30000
brillig

From my oldest sister's cancer-treatment blog:

When I was reading my CT report last week, I was feeling anxious. Each line had the potential for revealing something bad. At one point, though, I laughed. The report stated that "the uterus appears to be missing." Not the uterus is missing but appears to be missing. As though the author didn't want to be held responsible in case my uterus turns up or is simply hiding behind the pancreas. For those with actual medical training or are married to people with medical training, I do understand that a CT scan isn't intended to identify missing organs. Still, it is amusing. I'll be interested if the uterus does turn up.

And, also:

For the time being, I'm doing well. I'm starting to get bored being at home- a good sign. This week I'll start the conversation with my boss to see if I can return to work part-time. While I'm not certain whether I have the stamina to sustain working, I do think it will be good for me to give it a shot and return to a more-normal schedule.

and

She reviewed the January and March CT scans and confirmed that 1) there was no evidence of new nodule growth and 2) that the low-grade (slow-growing) nodules were stable. The nature of chemo is to attack high growth cells. While it would have been a benefit if the slow growth cells had been impacted, it wasn't really expected.

In fact the low grade nodules were identified in March 2009. I've had a year now of those nodules showing no activity.

A few months ago, there were worries that she wouldn't see the end of October. I think I'm safe in assuming that the women of my family continue their tradition of requiring a pipe to the back of the head to convince them to stay down.


DavidS - Apr 13, 2010 10:12:58 am PDT #15961 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Yes, that looks like the spot alright.

I'd be a little less worried about it right there, especially after a circ. I think there's less likelihood that it would affect function or sensation at that spot.

But I'd still want the doctor to check it.