Inara: You don't have to die alone. Mal: Everybody dies alone.

'Out Of Gas'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


Amy - Oct 19, 2016 4:00:01 am PDT #2695 of 3094
Because books.

Susan, it's really nice to see you! I think fantasy sounds like a great move for you, too.

esse, (I had no idea that's how you would pronounce -- I have zero Latin) it's lovely to see you here, too!


Laura - Oct 19, 2016 4:13:42 am PDT #2696 of 3094
Our wings are not tired.

does a happy delurky dance

So good to see you Susan and Erin. I celebrate your successes, sending ~ma and hugs where desired.

My hope is that we see more of the infrequent posters, and may some superlurkers show their pixels too!


Volans - Oct 19, 2016 6:23:27 am PDT #2697 of 3094
move out and draw fire

Hi again, prodigals! And holy cow people have been going through a lot. The total amount of bravery and dealing-with-it on this board is the awesomest.

Surgical super-glue is neat; I'd done some writing about the new tech in that area for warfighters (I still hate that word), so I was not expecting to discover that I am radically, virulently allergic to it. I had about a half pound of blood vessels taken out of my arm a couple years ago (long story, error in my DNA) and the surgeon used that glue to seal the several incisions and my arm turned into a freak show straight from any body horror movie. It looked like I'd been chewed on by a bobcat AND was deliquescing.

Now I am ruefully amused at the fact that "surgical glue" is not in any medical database of allergens.


Zenkitty - Oct 19, 2016 7:00:58 am PDT #2698 of 3094
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, holy carp, Raq, that's horrible! Both the excess blood vessel growth and the glue allergy.

That's good info for me to have, though, given that I'm allergic to most adhesives, if I ever need surgery again, I'll tell them to avoid using surgical glue! Yikes. Allergies are like little internal ninjas, hiding and just waiting to attack you when you least expect it.


erin_obscure - Oct 19, 2016 7:04:33 am PDT #2699 of 3094
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

It really ought to be, since it is most likely to be used while the patient is unconscious and unable to self advocate....

:waves at Susan: I'll be flying over you later tonight! It's rather appalling how self isolated I've been....heck, I just flew across the country and deliberately didn't tell anything beyond immediate family for fear of hurting feelings that I didn't make any time for socializing outside of family :/ not that feelings won't be hurt in retrospect, but by then it's a fait accompli so somehow I feel slightly less guilty about not making plans and seeing people? My logic is very flawed, I realize putting it in writing :(


esse - Oct 19, 2016 11:06:57 am PDT #2700 of 3094
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Two of my close RL friends had hysterectomies this year. Ifelt like we should start a punch card or something.


P.M. Marc - Oct 19, 2016 11:10:37 am PDT #2701 of 3094
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I totes forgot to mention in my catch-up that I lost the whole summer to panic and anxiety because I fainted in June and then had to have ALL THE TESTS!

Which is expensive and sucks! But I appear to be actually okay, so hey.


Steph L. - Oct 19, 2016 11:18:27 am PDT #2702 of 3094
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I fainted in June and then had to have ALL THE TESTS!

Didja hit your insurance deductible? We actually did that this year, thanks to Tim's RA and possible-but-not-actual horrific lung disease. My therapy visits are SUPER cheap from now through the end of the year! I have to figure out if there's anything else I ought to get taken care of before our deductible resets January 1.


Barb - Oct 19, 2016 11:43:05 am PDT #2703 of 3094
“Not dead yet!”

Also a member of the hysterectomy (due to fibroids) club.

It does appear to be a thing, yeah?


P.M. Marc - Oct 19, 2016 11:47:07 am PDT #2704 of 3094
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Didja hit your insurance deductible? We actually did that this year, thanks to Tim's RA and possible-but-not-actual horrific lung disease. My therapy visits are SUPER cheap from now through the end of the year! I have to figure out if there's anything else I ought to get taken care of before our deductible resets January 1.

Heh. My deductible, yes. OOP max, no. And my therapy isn't under insurance.