Most people is pretty quiet right about now. Me, I see a stiff -- one I didn't have to kill myself -- I just get, the urge to, you know, do stuff. Like work out, run around, maybe get some trim if there's a willin' woman about... not that I get flush from corpses or anything. I ain't crazy.

Jayne ,'The Message'


Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Allyson - Sep 16, 2009 5:26:11 pm PDT #9260 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I went to Broken Art Tattoo, which is really lovely. It's set up like a comfy lounge, lots of sofa, very airy and light. Good, calm atmosphere.

Weirdly, while I was sitting on one of the couches hanging out waiting for the artist to work on the transfer, a dude came in, walked up to me, and asked me if I could take a walk-in.

I apparently look like someone who works there. Which is odd, since I have no visible tats.

ETA: I went on a rec from a friend, who got a tiny piece of her mother's writing tattooed on her arm (I love you more...). Her mom is dying of cancer, and the artist refused to charge her for it, since he lost his own mom after a long battle with cancer.

Gorgeous work.


Amy - Sep 16, 2009 5:27:12 pm PDT #9261 of 30001
Because books.

It's very cool, Allyson.

God, I want more ink so much. I have it all planned, too. Where's the goddamn tattoo fairy when you need him?


tommyrot - Sep 16, 2009 5:34:13 pm PDT #9262 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I went on a rec from a friend, who got a tiny piece of her mother's writing tattooed on her arm (I love you more...). Her mom is dying of cancer, and the artist refused to charge her for it, since he lost his own mom after a long battle with cancer.

Awww....


Atropa - Sep 16, 2009 5:36:57 pm PDT #9263 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Allyson, that's a great tattoo!

God, I want more ink so much. I have it all planned, too. Where's the goddamn tattoo fairy when you need him?

I KNOW. I really need to crack the whip on that artist I have around here and get him to finish the next batch of designs.


Allyson - Sep 16, 2009 5:41:35 pm PDT #9264 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Actual email from asshat on OKCupid:

do you tend to be submissive in bed? most fat girls are.

My self-esteem remains intact.


sarameg - Sep 16, 2009 5:41:42 pm PDT #9265 of 30001

OK, so I'm reading Geography of Bliss which is particularly resonant of late. Cause I'm startled by the happy (two days morose is fading) and poking at it like a new discovery. Anyway, so many pages are bookmarked. Have to share a tidbit :

Change your location and you just may change yourself. It's not that distant lands contain some special "energy" or that their inhabitants possess secret knowledge (though they may) but rather something more fundamental: By relocating ourselves, we shake loose the shackles of expectation. Adrift in a different place we give ourselves permission to be different people.

Um, can I say hallelujah? Been changing places for 6 months, and oh yeah, I done do that.

(For the record, book is very irreverent, quote notwithstanding.)


Amy - Sep 16, 2009 5:46:41 pm PDT #9266 of 30001
Because books.

That book looks excellent, sara.

do you tend to be submissive in bed? most fat girls are.

Oh my god. I would be so tempted to show up at his door with a bullwhip.


Cashmere - Sep 16, 2009 5:49:17 pm PDT #9267 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

do you tend to be submissive in bed? most fat girls are

Is it wrong to reply, "do you tend to be stupid in real life? Most douchebags are."


§ ita § - Sep 16, 2009 5:53:06 pm PDT #9268 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

You've just reminded me that I have a lot of OK Cupid mail to reply to. I'm sure all the guys have had time to find their perfect matches and get married since we last chatted. I'm so bad with that shit.


sarameg - Sep 16, 2009 5:57:00 pm PDT #9269 of 30001

(but I'm not so happy I'd try dating. Oy. I'll stick to expensive trips and ill advised whatevers. Shutting up now. Really, sara.)