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Wash: Well, I wash my hands of it. It's a hopeless case. I'll read a nice poem at the funeral. Something with imagery. Zoe: You could lock the door and keep the power-hungry maniac at bay. Wash: Oh, no, I'm starting to like this poetry idea now. Here lies my beloved Zoe, my autumn flower, somewhat less attractive now she's all corpsified and gross...

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Atropa - Sep 16, 2009 5:36:57 pm PDT #9263 of 30001

The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Allyson, that's a great tattoo!

God, I want more ink so much. I have it all planned, too. Where's the goddamn tattoo fairy when you need him?

I KNOW. I really need to crack the whip on that artist I have around here and get him to finish the next batch of designs.

Allyson - Sep 16, 2009 5:41:35 pm PDT #9264 of 30001

Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Actual email from asshat on OKCupid:

do you tend to be submissive in bed? most fat girls are.

My self-esteem remains intact.

sarameg - Sep 16, 2009 5:41:42 pm PDT #9265 of 30001

OK, so I'm reading Geography of Bliss which is particularly resonant of late. Cause I'm startled by the happy (two days morose is fading) and poking at it like a new discovery. Anyway, so many pages are bookmarked. Have to share a tidbit :

Change your location and you just may change yourself. It's not that distant lands contain some special "energy" or that their inhabitants possess secret knowledge (though they may) but rather something more fundamental: By relocating ourselves, we shake loose the shackles of expectation. Adrift in a different place we give ourselves permission to be different people.

Um, can I say hallelujah? Been changing places for 6 months, and oh yeah, I done do that.

(For the record, book is very irreverent, quote notwithstanding.)

Amy - Sep 16, 2009 5:46:41 pm PDT #9266 of 30001

Because books.

That book looks excellent, sara.

do you tend to be submissive in bed? most fat girls are.

Oh my god. I would be so tempted to show up at his door with a bullwhip.

Cashmere - Sep 16, 2009 5:49:17 pm PDT #9267 of 30001

Now tagless for your comfort.

do you tend to be submissive in bed? most fat girls are

Is it wrong to reply, "do you tend to be stupid in real life? Most douchebags are."

§ ita § - Sep 16, 2009 5:53:06 pm PDT #9268 of 30001

Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

You've just reminded me that I have a lot of OK Cupid mail to reply to. I'm sure all the guys have had time to find their perfect matches and get married since we last chatted. I'm so bad with that shit.

sarameg - Sep 16, 2009 5:57:00 pm PDT #9269 of 30001

(but I'm not so happy I'd try dating. Oy. I'll stick to expensive trips and ill advised whatevers. Shutting up now. Really, sara.)

Theodosia - Sep 16, 2009 5:59:03 pm PDT #9270 of 30001

'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I like Cashmere's reply!

FWIW, AA calls changing your location in the hopes of changing yourself a 'geographic cure' and don't think that it works, at least for abuse issues.

lisah - Sep 16, 2009 5:59:13 pm PDT #9271 of 30001

Punishingly Intricate

Love the new tat!

sarameg - Sep 16, 2009 6:08:27 pm PDT #9272 of 30001

Theo, oh lord no, not what I was intending to imply. Just that for me, changing locations, be it across town or on the other side of the world, I DO give myself permission to try on other aspects of my person I don't otherwise, break out of myself, and when I've come home, they sorta stick. I hope.

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